Undiagnosed
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My son is 14. He hasn't goten a diagnosis yet but I have deemed him Aspie. There is one thing about him that I don't read or hear much about being associated with Aspergers. He alsways seems to be 'in the moment' only. I mean like this moment in time that he is in right now is the only thing that matters. When he was younger I did get a certain joy in seeing this trait in him. He seemed 'happy og lucky' like he was content playing or whatever it was he was interested in the moment without thinking about tomarrow, later on, or anything else. Many times I wish I could be just a little like that. I always have to be thinking ahead or dwelling about something that happened before.
NOW hoewever he is 14 and expected (and needs) to have a certain amount of responsability. How can you when you only are into this moment? I mean he needs to go to bed and get some sleep becouse he has school the next day. The next day dosn't matter to him right now and he might stay up as late possable and then end up sleeping in school. He dosn't worry or think much about his grades untill it is time to get his report card. Then it's too late. He can't seem to plan anything ahead at all. He can't seem to find the importance of getting an education. He just pretty much goes about life one moment at a time never thinking about any consequence to anything he dose or dosn't do. He dose get in trouble a lot and almost seems that he dosn't understand why. I am very concerned about my son. He is headed for trouble and seems to be so cluless! He seems like he will just do anything and not care what will happen if he dose. Dose any one whith Aspergers not care about much of anything? Not care what the consequences are of your actions? Not care about an education? Not have a gole of any kind? I beleive I have Asperger's too but I don't have this trait. Even as a kid I was always labeled 'reaponsable'. I don't know if this fits anyting to do with Asperger's or if it is something else?
NOW hoewever he is 14 and expected (and needs) to have a certain amount of responsability. How can you when you only are into this moment? I mean he needs to go to bed and get some sleep becouse he has school the next day. The next day dosn't matter to him right now and he might stay up as late possable and then end up sleeping in school. He dosn't worry or think much about his grades untill it is time to get his report card. Then it's too late. He can't seem to plan anything ahead at all. He can't seem to find the importance of getting an education. He just pretty much goes about life one moment at a time never thinking about any consequence to anything he dose or dosn't do. He dose get in trouble a lot and almost seems that he dosn't understand why. I am very concerned about my son. He is headed for trouble and seems to be so cluless! He seems like he will just do anything and not care what will happen if he dose. Dose any one whith Aspergers not care about much of anything? Not care what the consequences are of your actions? Not care about an education? Not have a gole of any kind? I beleive I have Asperger's too but I don't have this trait. Even as a kid I was always labeled 'reaponsable'. I don't know if this fits anyting to do with Asperger's or if it is something else?