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Interviews are hard/anyone else do accounting?

mw2530

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It has been a little while since I have posted a thread, but I couldn't hold out any longer. I had an interview for a senior corporate accounting job earlier today at a publicly traded company. I currently work in public accounting, but dislike tax season and the long hours that come with it. Anyway, it was a 4 hour interview with lunch and I met 6 different people.

It is so hard to answer the behavioral interview questions. First, coming up with a relevant example is so hard and the actually communicating my thoughts into words is very difficult. I have to picture the situation and then convert it to words. And then listening and focusing is so hard for me. My mind wants to go in 100 different directions and cannot just shut my mind off and listen.

I'm not 100% sure I want the job because there is still going to be some long hours at times I'm sure. And starting a new job is soooo hard because everything is changing and new which is so hard when you have ASD. But it could be better in the long run.

Decisions are hard too. ASD makes things so difficult because while I may be extremely skilled with the technical skills of the job, I lack in so many of the social skills. There is such a disconnect between the two that people don't understand. I tried to hide my so called short comings socially, but eventually people can see through this.

Interviewing is so much like dating and I suck at both but at least I've landed a few jobs over the years. I haven't fared so well with dating since technical skills don't get you very far.

Does anyone else work in accounting? Or work in public accounting or private accounting? What is your experience? I have my CPA and the big question all of us have to answer is whether to go private or public. I'm not 100% sure what would be best for me. Both have there challenges and benefits I guess.

What is nice now is I have developed sort of a niche at my current position and people generally know how I operate and I can get by. But often times, I feel like that is all I am doing and get depressed, anxious, and unhappy. But I question whether any other job will be different. I feel like every job I've had I feel I've done enough to get by.

Interviews are so hard. Interviews are so hard. Interviews are so hard. Interviews are so hard. I hate interviews. I'm tired.
 
Sounds like you did something right if they gave you a 4 hour interview, introduced you to 6 people, and gave you lunch. I'm impressed. Also sounds like you are a bit torn between staying in your comfort zone vs. trying a new situation, maybe stretching yourself a bit. This is a hard decision but it would be nice if you get to make it. Why don't you wait and see before you get anxious- it could be a moot point or an opportunity you get to make a choice. And maybe there's a way to get both by staying in your current job but taking on some sort of challenge. But I'm not an accountant so this may be a worthless response. Good luck to you though, hope all turns out well for you.
 
Thanks AspiesCental members for the abundance of responses! I appreciate the concern. I was not offered the job if anyone on here gives a rip.
 
Thanks AspiesCental members for the abundance of responses! I appreciate the concern. I was not offered the job if anyone on here gives a rip.

Well, we do give a rip. How are you feeling about that? Is it a relief or no?
 
Well, we do give a rip. How are you feeling about that? Is it a relief or no?

Terrible, b/c in a another month or so I will be working 60+ hours for 3 solid months for my current job. I've spent so much time over the years interviewing and applying for jobs all and it is all a waste of time, effort, and stress. I'm not sure that I can take another busy season. I have been unable to build any sort of personal life due to all my other problems. And it is impossible to do when literally all you do is work each week and run errands and maybe do a little physical exercise so that I don't go completely crazy.
 
Terrible, b/c in a another month or so I will be working 60+ hours for 3 solid months for my current job. I've spent so much time over the years interviewing and applying for jobs all and it is all a waste of time, effort, and stress. I'm not sure that I can take another busy season. I have been unable to build any sort of personal life due to all my other problems. And it is impossible to do when literally all you do is work each week and run errands and maybe do a little physical exercise so that I don't go completely crazy.

That sounds terrible (working 60 hours for 3 months). Can they legally force you to do that? If so do they have to pay you time and a half or double time for hours over 40?
 
That sounds terrible (working 60 hours for 3 months). Can they legally force you to do that? If so do they have to pay you time and a half or double time for hours over 40?

Not when you are paid salary. Salaried positions are a huge rip off b/c most salaried positions you end up working well over 40 hours per week on average. It is the beauty of America. We middle class work our lives away to support the extravagant lifestyles of the rich and to support the people who live off the government; many of which game the system b/c they are too lazy to work even though they are perfectly capable.
 

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