I mistakenly tried to introduce myself on the "shout" part of this website. I'll try again. Hello from Auckland NZ. Not feeling that great right now as my wife is making me feel pressured. Had a bit of a breakdown two years ago and I haven't been the same since. Taking Citralipam which has possibly affected my motivation to help out around the house. Acting very selfishly but seem unable to do much about it. Not sure why I am doing the things I do/not do but my only motivation seems to be to feel the best I can under the circumstances. Self-diagnosis of Aspergers has helped me greatly to cope but I may be using it as a crutch.