lovely_darlingprettybaby
Well-Known Member
So when I went in the fairy shop, the girl in the shop was really pretty and when I said that I find the fairy stuff really pretty even the kids stuff, she said she did as well.
And I'm like well that made me feel better because I did not feel stupid for liking all the wands and fairy stuff etc that kids like.
However I am not ashamed of liking anything I like.
But nice to get so validation when you feel low off another because cptsd and BPD are hard conditions and you can often feel like no one likes you.
I had a really hard day but I think sometimes when you give someone a chance, they can surprise you.
So...do not write anyone off before you give them a chance, people can be prone to snap judgements and also...
Just because some people are mean to you and are not your thing does not mean it equals everyone and stereotypes are not often true. So if you think of this person looks this way or dresses this way and is sure to be a nasty girl...just do not say it straight away
Because it may not be true even if you can read some people.
And I am the sort who will even give some semi narcissists a chance because if they come across as funny or fairly nice to you then why discount them maybe you will even make them into a better person.
And I'm like well that made me feel better because I did not feel stupid for liking all the wands and fairy stuff etc that kids like.
However I am not ashamed of liking anything I like.
But nice to get so validation when you feel low off another because cptsd and BPD are hard conditions and you can often feel like no one likes you.
I had a really hard day but I think sometimes when you give someone a chance, they can surprise you.
So...do not write anyone off before you give them a chance, people can be prone to snap judgements and also...
Just because some people are mean to you and are not your thing does not mean it equals everyone and stereotypes are not often true. So if you think of this person looks this way or dresses this way and is sure to be a nasty girl...just do not say it straight away
Because it may not be true even if you can read some people.
And I am the sort who will even give some semi narcissists a chance because if they come across as funny or fairly nice to you then why discount them maybe you will even make them into a better person.