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John - new to this forum and at an advanced age discovering I may have mild Aspergers

jdt44

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Hello to all

I'm 68 years old, married for 45 years, two children, five grandchildren. I was a high performing HS student and graduated from a name university in the late '60s. I'm retired from a long career as an executive/administrator in a large municipal government. I have always felt somewhat out of the mainstream and different somehow. It was only in the past year that someone told me, lovingly, that I exhibited mild characteristics of Aspergers Syndrome. I sort of poo-pooed that statement at first. Recently I started watching a new cable TV program titled "The Bridge" in which one of the main characters, a woman police detective is explicitly written as having Aspergers. It was only on watching that dramatization that I began to see, in a much more exaggerated sense many ways I react in certain situations and how others react to her. It was like a light bulb going off when I saw that. Previously I had mistakenly believed that people with Aspergers were incapable of functioning...my ignorance of the subject. I've now come to read of any number of well known persons who are purported to have it.


I look forward to reading much more here and elsewhere and hope to gain more insight into my own personality and its effects on those around me.
 
Re: John - new to this forum and at an advanced age discovering I may have mild Asper

Hi John,
Same here as with Sportster. Like reading a book about me. Always felt like I was not like the typical "adult male" for some reason. Watch Sherlock with Benedict Cumberbatch on Netflix. He nails it. The character on the bridge, for me at least, seems to be a little over the top at times. Also Read (or listen to) "look me in the eye" Look Me in the Eye: My Life with Asperger's: John Elder Robison: 9780307396181: Amazon.com: Books, you will read A LOT of things that you will relate to. You can get it from the library or Overdrive Media if you have a library card. Nice to realize that we are not weird, just a little off normal and there are more than just a few of us ;)
Ger
 
Re: John - new to this forum and at an advanced age discovering I may have mild Asper

hi and welcome there is plenty of great advice here on this site
 
Re: John - new to this forum and at an advanced age discovering I may have mild Asper

Hi John! Welcome to Aspies Central.

You will definitely learn A LOT from us - that I guarantee. Feel free to ask any questions you might have in our forums or in the shoutbox. Hope you enjoy all we have to offer here.
 

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