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Jury clears man with Asperger's Syndrome of groping woman sleeping on his sofa

AGXStarseed

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(Not written by me)

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The group went back to a flat in Bampfylde Street in Exeter after a night out


An autistic man has been cleared of groping a woman who fell asleep at his flat after a night out.

Darryl Bessell, who suffers from Asperger's Syndrome, was found not guilty of sexually assaulting the woman after telling a jury he had only put his arms around her.

Bessell was cleared after a jury heard that his autism, coupled with anxiety, caused him to apologise for something he had not done and harm himself with a kitchen knife.

He told Exeter Crown Court he was so upset at being accused of the sexual assault that he went to the kitchen and cut his wrist and leg with a knife.

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Bessell, aged 27, of Bampfylde Street, Exeter, denied two offences of sexual assault and was found not guilty of both counts within 30 minutes by the jury.

During a three day trial the woman told how she fell asleep on Bessell's sofa after going back to his flat from Club Rococo.

She said she woke up in pain to find his hands down the front and back of her trousers and ran screaming to another room where two friends were sleeping.

They both said Bessell admitted touching the woman and apologised for his behaviour as he was cutting himself.

He suffers from Asperger's Syndrome and Anxiety Disorder and gave evidence with the help of a trained intermediary, who vetted questions to ensure they were simple enough for him to understand.

Bessell told the court he went to sleep on the same sofa as the woman with his arms around her.

He said:"My hands were on her arms and round her like a hug. She was still wearing the same clothes and I went to sleep with the duvet on me.

"I was asleep for maybe ten minutes when I was woken by her pushing me away and shouting at me. I can't remember what she was shouting but she was hysterical and swearing at me to get off her.

"I did not know why she was doing that. I had not moved my arms deliberately and my hands did not go down her trousers. I did not touch her private parts.

"She went to the bedroom where the others were sleeping. I went to the kitchen. One of them asked me what I had done and I said 'I don't know'. I did not know what I was supposed to have done.

"I knew she was upset. I was emotional and felt like I had done something wrong, although I did not know what. I was crying and I went to the kitchen to grab a knife to hurt myself.

"I have done it before. I wanted to hurt myself because I thought I had done something wrong. It was an escape. I cut my wrist and leg. I had no intention of hurting anyone else.

"When I was told what I was supposed to have done I did not know what she meant. My only physical contact was to have my arms around her."





SOURCE: http://www.middevongazette.co.uk/Ju...roping-woman/story-28027677-detail/story.html
 
Apart from the issue of whatever it was that happened in this particular case...
If you don't want someone to grope you (I'm not saying whether or not that was what happened here) you shouldn't sleep with someone especially not someone who's sexually attracted to your gender. That doesn't mean that if you do, you deserve what happens. It doesn't mean that. It's just a safety precaution. Wearing a helmet on a bike is a safety precaution; it doesn't mean you deserve an injury that occurs when you don't wear one. And it doesn't mean that someone has the right (if you sleep with them) to touch you if you don't want them to. Just as not wearing a bicycle helmet doesn't mean someone has the right to hit you with your car. But it's still safer to wear the bicycle helmet.
Anyway, if two people are sleeping together, especially in such a tight close space as a couch they can end up accidentally touching each other in ways that the other person doesn't want. Which might be what happened here. Which is probably why the Jury was able to reach their conclusion so quickly.
 
Reading the title I thought I was going to say: "He should be in jail, this is just misogyny."

But… that woman is kind of a b*tch. She supposedly knew him, so she knew he was "unusual" socially speaking, she decided to sleep in his house, he didn't say he was attracted to her that I saw, I don't know why he decided to lie down on a couch where someone was already sleeping, maybe someone should have pointed out to him not to do that. He rightfully got off scot free, and hopefully he'll never see that cow again.

He suffers from Asperger's Syndrome and Anxiety Disorder and gave evidence with the help of a trained intermediary, who vetted questions to ensure they were simple enough for him to understand.

I think that's supposed to be "literal enough for him to answer", but nice to see a professional journalist professionally reporting on something disability-related.
 
I don't know why he decided to lie down on a couch where someone was already sleeping, maybe someone should have pointed out to him not to do that.
I kind of felt that they were both drunk when they got home, and the lying down together happened as a result of drunken-impaired-judgement.
One more reason not to get too drunk.
 

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