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Man tells boy with autism, 5, that he ‘belongs in a zoo’...

AGXStarseed

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A mother was horrified when a complete stranger told her five-year-old autistic son he ‘belonged in a zoo’.


Makonnen Hirose was ridiculed by an elderly man sat in front of him on a quiet bus after the youngster starting making high-pitched animal noises.


Makonnen Hirose playing at home in Bristol (Picture: SWNS)


Single mother Mika Hirose, 41, says she was taking her son to a therapy session in Cold Ashton, Bristol, when a man in his 60s made the comment.

Makonnen was in a good mood, was singing and humming to himself when an elderly couple got on the bus and sat down in front of them.

A lady began talking to schoolboy Makonnen, who attends May Park Primary School in Eastville, but it was explained to her that the youngster has limited speech.

The animal-obsessed schoolboy, from Fishponds, Bristol, then started making high-pitched noises, something he often does when he finds being in public spaces distressing.

Makonnen suffers from sensory processing disorder, which means he makes unexpected loud noises, flaps his hands and hits his head or body against walls.

Mika, who is originally from Japan, says the man started imitating her son like he was making fun of him and then out of nowhere suddenly said he ‘should be in a zoo’.

She was too taken aback to respond, but could tell that the comment was made at her son’s expense.

She said: ‘He is quite obsessed with animals – cows, dogs, cats, goats – sounds you don’t expect to hear much as a social norm on the bus.

‘I noticed that the man was copying the noises my son was making like he was making fun of him.

‘Then he suddenly said “he should be in a zoo”. If I could go back now, I’d ask him why he said that to Makonnen. I felt my son was discriminated.’


Makonnen often becomes anxious in public places (Picture: SWNS)


Mika said the worst thing about the incident was the man had just heard her explain her boy had autism.

She wants to raise awareness of the difficulties autistic people and their families face, in the hope that others will show more understanding.

‘No-one should be made to feel like an outsider,’ she said.

‘We are all of the same spirit. It doesn’t matter that he is autistic and can’t speak – people need to care and support one another.’


Source: Man tells boy with autism, 5, that he 'belongs in a zoo'
 
its a pity that makonnen didnt have the age and speech capacity to say to the ignorant old fashioned man; 'id love to live in the zoo,id be among animals who dont come out with ignorant disablist comments and they would love me unconditionally without judgement of my stims'.
hopefully makonnen didnt process his ignorant crap and was away in his own world to 'get' what he was saying-he doesnt deserve that especially being so young i dont want him to eventually become the cynical human hating autist that so many of us have experienced or still experience,but his mum heard it and that is going to affect her for a while probably,i hope it doesnt give her a permenently bad view of england,it isnt all disablist ive lived in some areas like urmston in manchester which had amazing capacity to support and understand autistic and learning [intellectually] disabled people.

i honestly hate the way old people think they can get away with being rude to people they dont even know because theyre from a time where they could be like that.
im sorry but this isnt the 19whatevers,this is 2016 and we should be working towards an accepting society.
perhaps makonnens mum should write letters in all the local newspapers shaming this guys behavior.
 
This is sad. If someone would do that to a child, you can only imagine the amount of pain that ignorant man caused to so many people in his lifetime.
 
Is it perhaps possible the old man was "playing" with the boy, and Mum is sensitive to anything that can be perceived as ridicule because its something she usually gets?

If of course he was being horrible then stupid old git needs to educate himself and learn some manners.
 
I have sensory integration/processing disorder; it's a real *****. Never goes away. Earplugs, dark glasses, or an MP3 can help - sometimes.
 
Is it perhaps possible the old man was "playing" with the boy, and Mum is sensitive to anything that can be perceived as ridicule because its something she usually gets?

If of course he was being horrible then stupid old git needs to educate himself and learn some manners.

That's the sort of interaction that leaves me unable to make a solid conclusion of what actually was intended, versus what was said. Very frustrating at times.

Was the man being literal, sarcastic or just trying to make an amusing comment not intended to be hurtful? I just don't know...which does put me at a disadvantage. Forcing me to simply not react, even though hours or days later I might dwell on it in my own mind.
 
That's the sort of interaction that leaves me unable to make a solid conclusion of what actually was intended, versus what was said. Very frustrating at times.

Was the man being literal, sarcastic or just trying to make an amusing comment not intended to be hurtful? I just don't know...which does put me at a disadvantage. Forcing me to simply not react, even though hours or days later I might dwell on it in my own mind.

I tend to take such interaction seriously unless I'm told it was only a joke (sometimes even then I'm not sure)

I guess I'm just trying to look at it from more than one angle - Elderly people often make misguided attempts at friendliness and humour, only to insult someone.
 
I tend to take such interaction seriously unless I'm told it was only a joke (sometimes even then I'm not sure)

I guess I'm just trying to look at it from more than one angle - Elderly people often make misguided attempts at friendliness and humour, only to insult someone.

I suspect it's more common than not for a total stranger to use humor and not preface their words at the beginning. But even then, in real-time I can't parse such things to a correct conclusion. More often than not, I'll just resolve that I was just insulted. And of course from there further conversation with me is likely to "go downhill" from there. :confused:
 
(Not written by me)

A mother was horrified when a complete stranger told her five-year-old autistic son he ‘belonged in a zoo’.


Makonnen Hirose was ridiculed by an elderly man sat in front of him on a quiet bus after the youngster starting making high-pitched animal noises.


Makonnen Hirose playing at home in Bristol (Picture: SWNS)


Single mother Mika Hirose, 41, says she was taking her son to a therapy session in Cold Ashton, Bristol, when a man in his 60s made the comment.

Makonnen was in a good mood, was singing and humming to himself when an elderly couple got on the bus and sat down in front of them.

A lady began talking to schoolboy Makonnen, who attends May Park Primary School in Eastville, but it was explained to her that the youngster has limited speech.

The animal-obsessed schoolboy, from Fishponds, Bristol, then started making high-pitched noises, something he often does when he finds being in public spaces distressing.

Makonnen suffers from sensory processing disorder, which means he makes unexpected loud noises, flaps his hands and hits his head or body against walls.

Mika, who is originally from Japan, says the man started imitating her son like he was making fun of him and then out of nowhere suddenly said he ‘should be in a zoo’.

She was too taken aback to respond, but could tell that the comment was made at her son’s expense.

She said: ‘He is quite obsessed with animals – cows, dogs, cats, goats – sounds you don’t expect to hear much as a social norm on the bus.

‘I noticed that the man was copying the noises my son was making like he was making fun of him.

‘Then he suddenly said “he should be in a zoo”. If I could go back now, I’d ask him why he said that to Makonnen. I felt my son was discriminated.’


Makonnen often becomes anxious in public places (Picture: SWNS)


Mika said the worst thing about the incident was the man had just heard her explain her boy had autism.

She wants to raise awareness of the difficulties autistic people and their families face, in the hope that others will show more understanding.

‘No-one should be made to feel like an outsider,’ she said.

‘We are all of the same spirit. It doesn’t matter that he is autistic and can’t speak – people need to care and support one another.’


Source: Man tells boy with autism, 5, that he 'belongs in a zoo'

If they had done it to any child of mine, I would've phoned the Coppers and reported it as a "hate crime".
 
If they had done it to any child of mine, I would've phoned the Coppers and reported it as a "hate crime".

I get the sentiment, but the practicality of doing so is very different.

I suspect your country isn't much different than mine when it comes to prosecuting alleged "hate crimes". That it takes much more than just a slur uttered in real time to prosecute such a thing. But in this instance we're not even sure what the other person's intent was.

In my country, much like treason, such crimes are difficult to prosecute legally speaking. Besides, if government aggressively pursued prosecuting mere slurs, the courts would be bogged down to the point of being unable to process more pressing criminal matters.

Not to mention an incoming administration that is unabashedly at war with "political correctness" altogether. Not sure where that will go or how much it may influence society as a whole. Uneasy days ahead, for sure in contemplating their influence on a society that has always been socially contrary to us in one way or another.
 
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If it were my son, it would have gotten ugly, and fast. Some good might come of this, the old git might be trampled by an angry horse and the last sound he hears might be "animal noises".
 
If it were my son, it would have gotten ugly, and fast. Some good might come of this, the old git might be trampled by an angry horse and the last sound he hears might be "animal noises".

That's kind of dark.
In a weird way, it reminds me of that vet who received so much hate mail off people after he posted photos of himself with 'trophies' of various animals he killed - only for karma to come back and bite him in the backside as, while he was hunting birds in Italy, he slipped and fell off a cliff before plunging 100ft to his death.
( Story here: Lion killer who shot wild animals dies after plunging 100ft down ravine )
 
That's kind of dark.
In a weird way, it reminds me of that vet who received so much hate mail off people after he posted photos of himself with 'trophies' of various animals he killed - only for karma to come back and bite him in the backside as, while he was hunting birds in Italy, he slipped and fell off a cliff before plunging 100ft to his death.
( Story here: Lion killer who shot wild animals dies after plunging 100ft down ravine )

Dark? Yes. Dark is often my thing. Look around. The universe is quite dark. My post was somewhat humorous, if darkly so.
 
It might sound bad, but at this point I'm so used to people making fun of me that I just laugh at them when they make such comments. Before anyone says that I need to stand up for myself, I know, but If do anything violent or threatening, I run the risk of being prosecuted, so that's out of the question.
 
It might sound bad, but at this point I'm so used to people making fun of me that I just laugh at them when they make such comments. Before anyone says that I need to stand up for myself, I know, but If do anything violent or threatening, I run the risk of being prosecuted, so that's out of the question.

I laugh in their face too, if their comments are directed at me, but if an adult says something cruel to my kid in front of me, it's a different story.
 

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