virtualbacon
New Member
I was diagnosed with generalized anxiety a while ago, but only recently with HFA and ADHD. I am having the worst time with finding a good medication. SSRI's make my ADHD much worse, but help with anxiety. ADHD meds make my anxiety worse and add depression when the stimulant wears off, but while it's working I feel great. Taking nothing I am most affected by the ADHD (inattentive/lack focus, a space cadet), and every so often anxiety. Of course the HFA is always there no matter what, no meds for that, and I just have to deal with that on my own. My wife has said the ADHD stimulant I take (Focalin XR) has been the most beneficial as it gets me the energy/motivation to get off my butt and do housework or do fun things with our kids. I am struggling with the ups and downs of the med, even with an XR version. Ever since my son was diagnosed with HFA, I suspected I was as well, especially after learning so much about HFA and ADHD. I thought I would feel relieved after getting diagnosed, people noted the relief, but instead I feel lost, anxious, and depressed about what to do, and have been doing some soul searching, rethinking my childhood, hyper analyzing every social situation and wondering if people perceive me to be awkward, odd, different. I am hoping to get the medication situation figured out and in doing so, maybe my other struggles get better as well. Thoughts, suggestions?
Thanks!
Thanks!