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Middle-Aged Woman and Questioning...

AquaCat84

AquaCat84

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So at age 39, I came to a rather abrupt realization this week: I think I might be bisexual. I've been attracted to men since I was a teenager, but I've had feelings for women over the years as well, and I would be happy to be in a lesbian relationship. Has anyone else experienced questioning your sexual orientation later in life? If you have, I would love any suggestions or personal anecdotes. I'm very new to this, and I'd like to find out more about it.
 
AquaCat84 said:
So at age 39, I came to a rather abrupt realization this week: I think I might be bisexual. I've been attracted to men since I was a teenager, but I've had feelings for women over the years as well, and I would be happy to be in a lesbian relationship. Has anyone else experienced questioning your sexual orientation later in life? If you have, I would love any suggestions or personal anecdotes. I'm very new to this, and I'd like to find out more about it.
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i get where you're coming from.i came out as bisexual myself 2 years ago & i've been wildly attracted to men & women ever since.because of the sexual tension with whoever i'm wildly attracted to,i just want to pounce on him or her like a wild animal or simply avoid them.
 
AquaCat84 said:
So at age 39, I came to a rather abrupt realization this week: I think I might be bisexual. I've been attracted to men since I was a teenager, but I've had feelings for women over the years as well, and I would be happy to be in a lesbian relationship. Has anyone else experienced questioning your sexual orientation later in life? If you have, I would love any suggestions or personal anecdotes. I'm very new to this, and I'd like to find out more about it.
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I never really put a label on myself but over the years before I married my husband, I dated people I cared about no matter if they were male or female. I always just let my heart choose. I never understood the fuss one way or another. If the person is nice and we like each other what does it matter past that so long as you are both consenting adults. My husband knows and accepts me how I am, and that's why I love him and want no other. Find what makes you happy :)
 
I have always struggled with identity issues and didn’t realize I was a lesbian until I was 28. Now in a very happy and serious same sex relationship.
You’re not alone :)

Feel free to reach out to me privately if you have any additional LGBTQ+ questions because I’m very knowledgeable!
 
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