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Okay. A lot of doctors and therapists don’t know what they’re talking about when it comes to autism, by the way. Many of us here have stories of being told by a healthcare professional that we’re not autistic.
I've never heard of "very very very high-functioning autism".
Unless you've been professionally tested and interviewed,...I might just pause on making judgments. As a healthcare professional, I can say with certainty that most healthcare workers and physicians wouldn't recognize an ASD-1/Asperger's variant unless they've lived with one. I have walked the halls of my hospital for 35 years,...even wearing my puzzle-piece ID lanyard,...nothing. I work at one of the largest children's hospitals in the US,...we see autistic children every day. Yet, at no point has anyone said, "Are you on the spectrum?" Exception: I had one of my co-workers point it out to me,...because she has a son with autism. My physicians over the years,...not once suggested it. Even when I gave him a copy of the report,...he was perplexed. Yet,...all my testing put me well into the moderate to severe ASD-1/Asperger's variant.
I'd suggest read more about the spectrum. See if things seem to make sense from the articles and books you read etc.
Ed
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I never brought up the fact that I had doubts but the clinician performing my assessment noted that I did not fit the stereotypical profile of a male Aspie and that I might, at various points in my life, find myself questioning whether I really have autism. She said that was okay and that the diagnosis was just a framework for understanding this specific cluster of traits.
I recently went to a support group with other people on the spectrum and felt that I was nothing like them. It was clear to me some of them were Aspies as soon as they started talking, some of them, even before they opened their mouths. On the other hand, most people would never guess that I had autism. How could we all be on the spectrum? But that's the thing, it is a spectrum. I assume that people who present in a certain way are more likely to be diagnosed. However, it seems that our understanding of what autism spectrum disorder looks like is changing and there are many of us who don't fit the stereotypical mold yet still fall within the spectrum.
Like the guy in the video above, I think a lot of it also has to do with masking, adaptability, and the blending in skills that some of us learn as we grow up. I've really started to notice that I mirror people a lot. Someone may make a joke that I didn't get or sometimes even hear but when I see their lips start to curl into a smile I do the same and may even chuckle. No matter how well I present, I can't deny that I still meet the diagnostic criteria for Autism Spectrum Disorder and that it still helps me understand my experience better than anything else out there.