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More Interested In Fictional Characters Than People

The Penguin

Chilly Willy The Penguin
As my live progress, I having less interest in people and more interest in fictional characters. My best friend feels the same as me. Many of you already know about some of the toy collection that I have.

I learning as I keep building my collection, my life gets more exciting. How things stand now, I'm not sure if I will ever have interest connecting with new people. There will be some exceptions such as for employment and a few other things to advanced in life. But besides that my life is based on my fictional characters.

I'm interested hear from those who does have attachment to fictional characters?
 
Hmmm...this is an interesting topic. I may not have got your point exactly, but here goes anyways..

I can get attached to fictional characters easy, from anime, movies, books and such and I think the reason is because they are predictable mostly. I can experience their struggles and triumphs all without the cringy awkwardness that comes with real people.

Each of your dolls has a personality, thought or written out by someone that doesn't change and can't affect you negatively.

Growing up I got lost in books and I always wished I could live in them and the people in my life might even be more like them, more predictable, not so mean and difficult. Again, I might've misunderstood you and I apologize if I have.
 
Hmmm...this is an interesting topic. I may not have got your point exactly, but here goes anyways..

I can get attached to fictional characters easy, from anime, movies, books and such and I think the reason is because they are predictable mostly. I can experience their struggles and triumphs all without the cringy awkwardness that comes with real people.

Each of your dolls has a personality, thought or written out by someone that doesn't change and can't affect you negatively.

Growing up I got lost in books and I always wished I could live in them and the people in my life might even be more like them, more predictable, not so mean and difficult. Again, I might've misunderstood you and I apologize if I have.
You got the idea
 
I get very attached to the video game characters I create. I end up making a backstory for them and talk about them to other people. I'm actually proud of THEM even though I'm the one controlling them. I have an OCD quirk where I HAVE to create them ALL by myself with absolutely NO help whatsoever, and to make sure that I absolutely did not make a mistake in the creation process because I was worrying about something (and I always have intrusive thoughts pop into my mind). Otherwise I can't play the character; I'd just keep thinking that somebody else indirectly contributed to the mistake, because they were the source of my worry which caused the mistake in the first place - thus, they indirectly contributed to the creation of the character and I can't have that happen. I actually had to recreate a character for that reason once, and I had such paranoias about other characters...because how can I know? My mind is always racing and there's always some kind of intrusive thought popping up. However, in many cases I don't even remember if there was a mistake, so I often calm myself down by saying that this is Schrodinger's Cat.
 
i think carlisle and Edward cullen from the twilight books they are tormented and especially as carlisle (the character is English and a vicars son -the book says pastor that is a term for very very free Christian churches originally the us )is my from my country
As my live progress, I having less interest in people and more interest in fictional characters. My best friend feels the same as me. Many of you already know about some of the toy collection that I have.

I learning as I keep building my collection, my life gets more exciting. How things stand now, I'm not sure if I will ever have interest connecting with new people. There will be some exceptions such as for employment and a few other things to advanced in life. But besides that my life is based on my fictional characters.

I'm interested hear from those who does have attachment to fictional characters?
 
As my live progress, I having less interest in people and more interest in fictional characters. My best friend feels the same as me. Many of you already know about some of the toy collection that I have.

I learning as I keep building my collection, my life gets more exciting. How things stand now, I'm not sure if I will ever have interest connecting with new people. There will be some exceptions such as for employment and a few other things to advanced in life. But besides that my life is based on my fictional characters.

I'm interested hear from those who does have attachment to fictional characters?
I was like this for a long time! The only difference now is that I don't read much fiction now - so the fictional characters are not there for me to be interested in. With the fictional characters, there were no barriers up blocking my view of observing/understanding them, and there was no way they could threaten me, either. So I was finally able to have emotional intimacy with them - they didn't mind me staring too hard :-) Also, stories help me a lot - I pay attention the symbolism and its significance for my life, and I think of the life journeys the characters have had to go through - often they are quite difficult, so it provides me inspiration some times (even though it's fiction). It's also interesting seeing what our interest in the fictional characters says about us! I'll give an example that only people who have read DragonLance would understand, but it's on my mind so here it goes: when reading those books as a teenager, I found a certain character, Laurana, to be nothing highly annoying. Then as an adult, looking back, I realized she has become my favorite character - I relate to her journey. The characters I used to like are no longer the ones I relate to. I guess it's the lack of actual real relationships that drives this - we still have the need to relate, even if it isn't possible so much in real life!
 
I've always been more attached to fictional characters than real people. I loved watching movies and cartoons with my favorite characters, such as Winnie the Pooh and Sesame Street. As I got older, my favorite characters became my imaginary friends, and I was thrilled when I could find toys/plushies of the characters I loved. I think of the fictional characters I loved as my very first teachers, protectors and friends in life.
 
I can relate to this. I can understand characters much more clearly than I understand the people around me, mainly because some have faced the same situations I have. I see a lot of "weird outcast" characters as role models. this is proof to me that just because you are weird, it doesn't mean you have to shame yourself for it, and you may be accomplish something great because you're weird. a lot of people have told me there is something wrong with me because I relate to characters instead of having empathy for real people. But since there's nothing I can do about that, I've stopped beating myself up over it.
 
My very best friends are fictional characters. Real people are really difficult to deal with. Even the ones who love me are often too busy to spend time with me, and other times they will get into bad moods so it makes them unapproachable. Plus, there's always the knowledge that even if I love someone and have an awesome relationship with them, they're going to die someday anyway.

On the other hand, fictional characters are always there for me when I need them, and they are always the ones to cheer me up. I don't really experience loneliness much anymore because I prefer solitude and the company of my favorite fictional characters to the company of real people.
 
My very best friends are fictional characters. Real people are really difficult to deal with. Even the ones who love me are often too busy to spend time with me, and other times they will get into bad moods so it makes them unapproachable. Plus, there's always the knowledge that even if I love someone and have an awesome relationship with them, they're going to die someday anyway.

On the other hand, fictional characters are always there for me when I need them, and they are always the ones to cheer me up. I don't really experience loneliness much anymore because I prefer solitude and the company of my favorite fictional characters to the company of real people.
I feel the same way as what you are describing here, particularly with the characters that I write about in my fiction stories. I often find that I spend more time daydreaming about interacting with my fictional characters than I do with real people.
 
I don't get attached to fictional characters unless those were created by me. You know, RPG characters. But they get some traits from me. They are more like my alternative versions.

But I can't understand how somebody can get attached to a fictional character and mourn its death etc.
 
But I can't understand how somebody can get attached to a fictional character and mourn its death etc.
I know many people can mourn about a character death including myself. Only people understand that haves a deeper attachment to fictional characters.
 
I wanted to thank everyone who replied that does truly connect with fictional characters more than people.

I had many hard periods in my life and several friends that abandoned me. Almost every single one when they left me was about them finding a better friend than me. Some of them, I was just a temporary friend. Then there people was my friend over pity. I dropped those type of people out of my life.

The people I speak to outside of my fictional characters is a few good online friends which also connect with fictional characters. My best friend said she can't connect with 95% of society and I feel the same way.

One thing I was trying to learn about my best friend why her toys means a lot to her. I didn't understand until after I started collecting. I think I own at least 200 toys now. I consider all of them my friends. They been making me a lot happier. I'm also adding posters on my wall and have many more to buy.

Despite many of society will consider this odd, many of you know I don't give a dam about society. Society did nothing but let me down. So my focus is doing things to keep me happy so my mental state can be in order. In this case, I don't want to have bad thoughts in my head which haven't happen for many years. So all of this is what I'm living for wanting to stay alive continuing collecting my toys and hanging out with my fictional characters friends.
 
It can be hard to explain as it can vary person to person. In a simple explanation, if a person have a huge attachment to their character, it would be the same thing as their real life friend passing away. It not about well, this character was not a real person that people can see in the real world. It about what the character means to them.
 
I can get attached to fictional characters easy, from anime, movies, books and such and I think the reason is because they are predictable mostly. I can experience their struggles and triumphs all without the cringy awkwardness that comes with real people.
This is an interesting point, especially regarding the predictability. I read a lot since childhood, so I got to know many fictional characters over the time.
Your comment made me think about a pattern though. I liked some particular book series especially. Over the time I became more and more familiar with the characters. But in these series the basic plot structure remained the same as well.
Two of my favourites were The Famous Five by Enid Blyton and The Three Investigators (originally by Robert Arthur, but I read many of the later ones by other authors as well). Both had similar plot structures for the adventures in each book. So I felt "at home" there whenever I returned to one of the stories with the characters I knew and with their structured book universe.

I also read stand-alone novels, but these series stayed with me for a longer time.
Growing up I got lost in books and I always wished I could live in them and the people in my life might even be more like them, more predictable, not so mean and difficult.
I often wished that as well.
Alternatively, I imagined that I met the characters in real life. Like, there was a backstory for why they had to come to the town where I live and then we met and did stuff together or I travelled there and met them.

Also, these characters are always there. You cannot mess anything up with them, they won't abandon you or leave you. You know them, know their world in its predictability and have a home there. They even are there when you aren't engaging with the fiction medium itself (the book, show etc.) in your mind (like I made up my own stories with them).

It's like in Vincent Starrett's poem 221b:

Here dwell together still two men of note
Who never lived and so can never die:

How very near they seem, yet how remote
That age before the world went all awry.
But still the game's afoot for those with ears
Attuned to catch the distant view-halloo:
England is England yet, for all our fears—
Only those things the heart believes are true.

A yellow fog swirls past the window-pane
As night descends upon this fabled street:
A lonely hansom splashes through the rain,
The ghostly gas lamps fail at twenty feet.
Here, though the world explode, these two survive,
And it is always eighteen ninety-five.


This is about Sherlock Holmes and John Watson, but in some way it applies to other fictional characters as well. Their surroundings might differ from what is described in the poem, but it's the same principle, especially the parts I bolded. No matter what happens in real life, these characters are always there for you like @Idahocalypse mentioned:
On the other hand, fictional characters are always there for me when I need them, and they are always the ones to cheer me up.
 
I totally am a huge movie and TV person and I can relate with fictional characters more than I can with real people (mostly because I can't find a way to relate to a lot of "regular" people in my school). Here are my fictional characters whom I can relate with:

1: Susan Foreman (Doctor Who)
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Susan is the first of many characters to whom I can relate with. In this story (which was the first episode of Doctor Who ever made in 1963) we can see that Susan has an incredible spacial memory, is very intelligent, and is unusually curious about science and history. She cannot, however, fit in with her classmates because of how different she is from the rest of them. At one point in the episode when her teachers make it into the TARDIS after making it past Susan's grandfather (The First Doctor), she tells them that she was "Born in another time, another place." It is also stated in the pilot episode that she was born in the 49th century. I can relate with Susan in three ways; 1: I lived a very different life in homeschool for 8 years after my horrible experience in first grade and was raised by my family instead of technology.
2: I am very mature, creative, and intelligent in my classes as well as obedient to my teachers (who are like a second family to me). 3: I have a socially hard time with the student body at my school since I can't fit in and because I am socially awkward.


2: Edward Scissorhands (Edward Scissorhands)
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The next character I can relate with is Edward Scissorhands, one of Tim Burton's most beloved characters. Edward is an artificially created human with a child like mind and great love for the people he cares about, he is also quite a creative individual who can take a hedge and make something wonderful out of it. He does have sensitive emotions though and they can be set off very easily. When I first saw the movie I nearly cried because of how much Edward's character reminded me so much of how I behave and act as an autistic person, I was incredibly moved. I relate to him in these ways; 1: we both were home schooled for most of our lives.
2: We both love our family members very much and support and look out for them. 3: we both have childhood innocence which has never worn off.

3: Frankenstein's Monster (Frankenstein)
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As a followup to Edward, who better for a mildly autistic person to relate with than the classic movie monster. He was the original monster that came onto the screens back in 1931, and everyone was horrified at the time when he first gave his debut on screen. This guy is another character who I can relate with for very calm and simple reasons; 1: We both rarely show emotion most of the time. 2: We both can come across as intimidating to others. 3: We both just want to be accepted and liked by people, but we have personal matters that put a brake on it.

4: Raymond Babbitt (Rain Man)
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The man who can calculate and remember things off the top of his head: Raymond Babbitt. He and I have a few things in common too (even though I am not as severely affected by autism as he was). This character inherited a huge fortune from his father when he died, along with a cool looking 40's Buick Roadmaster. He is thought at first by his brother Charlie to be a hangover and a bit of a shnook when it comes to trying to get out to California on time, but through the course of the film he finds that his brother is an interesting and special person. I can relate with him like this;
1: He and I both have incredible spacial memories (He can remember cars and recite plays, I memorised the entire Disneyland Park when my family went for spring break of 2012). 2: He and I both like everything to be neatly organized and cleaned, and to stay on schedule as well as follow rules and regulations to perfection. 3: We both can have breakdowns sometimes (he throws a fit, I can get angered very easily).

5: Derpy Hooves (My Little Pony)
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Yes, you guessed it, I am a very big fan of MLP as well. The world of Equestria along with it's colorful ponies and their brighter more vibrant personalities appeals to my mind in ways that no other TV show universe has done. Derpy and I also have ways of relating to each other, and we are very much alike. (Side Note: You might be wondering why I like Derpy for being the person that I am, but I really like Derpy; I think that she is the one character out of all of them that serves as a good representation and banner for people like me to express ourselves with...DERPIES UNITE!) Anyhoo, we relate like this; 1: Derpy and I both experience the world differently. 2: We both are optimistic, bubbly, and sort of clumsy in our own ways. 3: Strangely, everyone seems to know our names even if we aren't their friends.

6: Willy Wonka (Charlie and the Chocolate Factory)
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Wrapping up my list is the most eccentric and creative businessman that I think most of us will ever meet: Willy Wonka Himself. He is the man who created everything from the Wonka Bar to the Everlasting Gobstopper, as well as a factory with a world of "Pure Imagination" within it. When he started reaching old age he decided to send out five golden tickets to see if their would be any child innocent and selfless enough to run his factory after he would leave and eventually die, he was also a very kind, creative, wonderful, and weird man to Charlie (I do not believe the bad things that people say about him to make that clear!). I relate with him like this; 1: We are both exceedingly creative and imaginative.
2: We both like very colorful, bright, and cheerful things as well as a few darker things. 3: We both are pretty odd and eccentric compared to other people.

This concludes my list...
 
I'm the same. Simply put, I hate real people. All real people either bore me to tears or annoy the **** out of me. I often find myself relating to fictional characters than I ever could to any real person. The character on my avatar picture is the most relatable person I have ever known. I see so much of myself in him it's crazy. That's way more than I could say for any real person... To me real people are the worst.
 

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