Still new, still sorting, still not formally diagnosed. Please hear me out as I have this idea that is crystallizing in my head and at least in the industries I have been in, this has never been done as far as I know.
NDs understand one another just as well as NTs understand each other. (TED talk covering 'telephone' experiments with specific groups) Problems occur when the two mix, unaware, and especially when only NT rules, perceptions, and environments are applied to the system.
Has anyone ever seen or been part of a group at work (corporate) that is all or mostly ND, and could you prove better results for both the team and each individual? I am still torn about disclosing anything. Perhaps the best way through is a model like this - to prove our worth and, at the same time, establish a safe space for longevity in the workplace. Remove obstacles. My employer proudly states they include diversity and value the individual. The reality is that diversity in thinking is not part of that consideration, which to me falsifies the entire premise. 15 years ago, I had that discussion with a co-worker (female POC, NT) who thought the notion of diversity in thinking weird as hell! Her husband, also with the company, was pretty cool but her main concern was that I was this capable female co-worker, so she intercepted any friendliness and even whispered her support for my move to another organization into the right ears. I assure you neither he nor me were interested in a relationship outside of just working well together. So this goes to show that NTs really don't get circumstances outside of their expectations and attitudes and often assume malice, incompetence, ignorance and such.
I'm not too fond of disclosing and either being laid off the next time they get a chance or being put in a corner career-wise with some irrelevant task as to not embarrass or expose some jerk. In the big picture, it is best for me and the company to utilize me fully. And since I enjoy other smart "weirdoes" and kind NTs, I'd love to have a microcosm of such folks.
NDs understand one another just as well as NTs understand each other. (TED talk covering 'telephone' experiments with specific groups) Problems occur when the two mix, unaware, and especially when only NT rules, perceptions, and environments are applied to the system.
Has anyone ever seen or been part of a group at work (corporate) that is all or mostly ND, and could you prove better results for both the team and each individual? I am still torn about disclosing anything. Perhaps the best way through is a model like this - to prove our worth and, at the same time, establish a safe space for longevity in the workplace. Remove obstacles. My employer proudly states they include diversity and value the individual. The reality is that diversity in thinking is not part of that consideration, which to me falsifies the entire premise. 15 years ago, I had that discussion with a co-worker (female POC, NT) who thought the notion of diversity in thinking weird as hell! Her husband, also with the company, was pretty cool but her main concern was that I was this capable female co-worker, so she intercepted any friendliness and even whispered her support for my move to another organization into the right ears. I assure you neither he nor me were interested in a relationship outside of just working well together. So this goes to show that NTs really don't get circumstances outside of their expectations and attitudes and often assume malice, incompetence, ignorance and such.
I'm not too fond of disclosing and either being laid off the next time they get a chance or being put in a corner career-wise with some irrelevant task as to not embarrass or expose some jerk. In the big picture, it is best for me and the company to utilize me fully. And since I enjoy other smart "weirdoes" and kind NTs, I'd love to have a microcosm of such folks.