Hi,
I'm new here. I wanted to wait for my official diagnosis, which happened last friday. I got diagnosed with ASD and ADHD. I guess that makes me an auDHDer, if I'm inclined to form my identity around my neurodivergency, which, I guess I am, at least, right now and lately, I am. I've been getting called out by family members for, basically, in my words, "being too autistic about being autistic". As it's been an obsession of late, to learn more about it and I can't help talking about what I'm learning about or thinking a lot about.
Bare in mind that I am a 50 year old female and, by the sounds of it, I am a very typical autistic woman, maybe especially for my, and older, generations. I guess I might fall into the "twice exceptional" category and maybe have been known to mask well, in some instances, which has and hasn't helped me, if you know what I mean. It's been pretty traumatic, a lot if my life and I got diagnosis' typical of people showing evidence of a lot of trauma, before I received my confirmation of this type of neurodivegence.
It's a HUGE relief to discover how not-alone I am in all this. Although I have had a fellow ND, same phenotype, I believe, partner, for quite a few years, AND I am the mother, sister and daughter of neurodivergent people. Most of whom aren't formally diagnosed and a few that are. I have a lot of children. I have struggled under the weight of many of their social difficulties and deficits too, on top of my own.
Anyway, that's probably enough for now. Oh, I am Australian. I live in Northern New South Wales. I'm am more of an Arts and humanities Autist but I'm kinda sciencey about humanities, having done some of a cultural studies degree and lots of research about many aspects of human behaviour and culture and "the human psyche". I am, quite typically I hear, quite an existential thinker type. Maybe typical for many older and some young Autist women and some men. My youngest son and partner are very hard science kinds of Aspie-Autists and I am, notably human and human behaviour centric in my interests and obsessions and curiosities aka "special interests". I used to be a performance artist of the singing, dancing, songwriting variety.
I'm new here. I wanted to wait for my official diagnosis, which happened last friday. I got diagnosed with ASD and ADHD. I guess that makes me an auDHDer, if I'm inclined to form my identity around my neurodivergency, which, I guess I am, at least, right now and lately, I am. I've been getting called out by family members for, basically, in my words, "being too autistic about being autistic". As it's been an obsession of late, to learn more about it and I can't help talking about what I'm learning about or thinking a lot about.
Bare in mind that I am a 50 year old female and, by the sounds of it, I am a very typical autistic woman, maybe especially for my, and older, generations. I guess I might fall into the "twice exceptional" category and maybe have been known to mask well, in some instances, which has and hasn't helped me, if you know what I mean. It's been pretty traumatic, a lot if my life and I got diagnosis' typical of people showing evidence of a lot of trauma, before I received my confirmation of this type of neurodivegence.
It's a HUGE relief to discover how not-alone I am in all this. Although I have had a fellow ND, same phenotype, I believe, partner, for quite a few years, AND I am the mother, sister and daughter of neurodivergent people. Most of whom aren't formally diagnosed and a few that are. I have a lot of children. I have struggled under the weight of many of their social difficulties and deficits too, on top of my own.
Anyway, that's probably enough for now. Oh, I am Australian. I live in Northern New South Wales. I'm am more of an Arts and humanities Autist but I'm kinda sciencey about humanities, having done some of a cultural studies degree and lots of research about many aspects of human behaviour and culture and "the human psyche". I am, quite typically I hear, quite an existential thinker type. Maybe typical for many older and some young Autist women and some men. My youngest son and partner are very hard science kinds of Aspie-Autists and I am, notably human and human behaviour centric in my interests and obsessions and curiosities aka "special interests". I used to be a performance artist of the singing, dancing, songwriting variety.