It's been coming on awhile now. I've bought what I like and am content. Have no desire to get a ps5 or Xbox whatever it's called. Too much went online and to multiplayer games with in built loot box system.
That's the thing though: That's not all of gaming. You're looking at one side and ignoring the other.
I went through the same thing, and frankly, I didnt buy a PSWhatever this time and havent had an X-Anything in YEARS. I do have an old PS4.... somewhere, it's kinda lost and I dont care enough to look for it. Because you're right, everything is multiplayer lootbox blah blah blah...
....On the AAA side, anyway.
I dumped AAA games YEARS ago. Best gaming-related (and hobby-related) move I've ever made. Two games, Binding of Isaac and Spelunky, got me to switch to indie games.
Believe me: There are A LOT of amazing things on the indie side. Better yet, ALL GENRES are represented there. I dont know if you noticed in recent years, but among the AAA side, entire genres are outright MISSING because they're not guaranteed to "please the shareholders" (aka the one and only thing the big companies ACTUALLY care about). 2 of my favorite genres for instance: roguelikes and shmups, the AAA guys never, EVER touch those.
AND, on top of that, indie games are drastically cheaper. And usually have more content. There are games that cost me, oh.... $10, or maybe $15, yet that I've gotten 300-400 hours out of. Isaac being the king of those, at 800 hours and no signs of THAT stopping anytime soon.
Dont think that they cant have great graphics either. I'll put it this way: I've rambled on, every now and then, about the glory of VR... you may have seen me do that. Guess who makes VR games? I'll give you a hint: It aint the AAA guys (again, wouldnt please the shareholders). And VR is the freaking *king* when it comes to graphical anything. Among non-VR games, well.... there's seriously some incredible stuff there. Or for those who dont care as much about graphics or even prefer retro stuff (as I often do), there's that too.
But BEST OF ALL: No. Scummy. Tricks. No lootboxes, no gambling mechanics, none of that worthless gibberish. You buy a game, and.... oh boy.... you GET THE GAME THAT YOU BOUGHT. What a concept, eh?
Seriously, I've been gaming since the 80s, and I followed all the big brands for a long time, and like you, started to get disillusioned and disappointed as they got more and more slimy, producing games that were just less and less good. Swapping sides not only got me MUCH better games, but it also got me a very, VERY dramatically wider variety. Anyone can make a game... even I've done it.
What I'm saying is: Dont just give in, and dont make assumptions about how things SEEM to be. Branch out and EXPLORE. Instead of waiting for the big slimeballs to come jumping at you with good games (which they wont), go out and do the browsing yourself, on the side that doesnt involve those slimy jerks.