No, we won't meet at your house mother dearest.....

[Aspychata]

So my mommy dearest is letting some random past emplyee stay at her house for lord knows when.

My problem, this guy is a moocher, he needs to rent a place. My daughter couldn't stay with her because the moocher is there, and mom mentioned that he currently doesn't have a plan in place. l am just burning up, my brain is in meltdown phase. I informed no we aren't celebrating my daughter visiting at your home with the random male that is mooching off you. We will meet in a restaurant, by the way, your moocher can't come.....

l give people wide berth, then l always find myself cooked and served to pygmies, like what is wrong with me. And l dont wish to offend any pygmies that maybe reading this.
-'okay-maybe l didn't mention the moocher part to my mom, how would you handle this?

 

[WhitewaterWoman]

I think what you suggested is good.

We will celebrate at a restaurant. Invitees include you, your daughter and your mother. No one else is welcome.

You don't need to deal with the moocher part. He just isn't family and this is a family only celebration.