Just had another session with a new tutor where every student presented some parts of their project to receive feedback on environmental analysis. I knew what I wanted to talk about and, although I don't really enjoy repeating myself to new people, I have presented my design in a manner that I consider if not charismatic, then close to, allowing people to see what I'm talking about without details considered widely 'unnecessary'. Maybe I have taken too long anyway, hard to say, but the person after me has spoken in the same exact tone and in similar time. Feedback I received was 'Well, that sounds interesting' and that was it. Every other person received questions and suggestions to improve but me. It's like the tutor didn't understand what I was talking about and just dissmissed it or found it boring.
My question is: do you know how to talk publicly to receive some constructive feedback? Otherwise, what is the point of repeating yourself? I know what I'm talking about, I know my design and project and just repeating to receive no further instruction is rather frustrating... especially when typical NTs do receive it without a problem and without asking even?
I have was informed in the past by my friend that I uncounsciously tend to glare at people as if I dared them to speak ill of me or my designs. I thought I have resolved this problem when I started seeing it as a potential improvement and instruction but is it possible that I started doing it again?
If not, what's the reason for this lack of feedback and/or dissmisal?
Any thoughts are welcome.
My question is: do you know how to talk publicly to receive some constructive feedback? Otherwise, what is the point of repeating yourself? I know what I'm talking about, I know my design and project and just repeating to receive no further instruction is rather frustrating... especially when typical NTs do receive it without a problem and without asking even?
I have was informed in the past by my friend that I uncounsciously tend to glare at people as if I dared them to speak ill of me or my designs. I thought I have resolved this problem when I started seeing it as a potential improvement and instruction but is it possible that I started doing it again?
If not, what's the reason for this lack of feedback and/or dissmisal?
Any thoughts are welcome.
But have been surrounding by them and so I can answer that the "well, that is interesting" is actually saying that, it is not interesting, but being polite and I know this, because NT's always say it and well, so do aspies, when they understand and appreciate that deplomacy is a must in most areas.
