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[D temp]

☆★ Sαм ★☆ says:
*but, from now on im gonna seriously cut down msn time and do stuff with good mates irl
*so i wont be on much any more im afraid


That's the dreaded words I've been paranoid of for YEARS.

You may think it's nothing, but this someone who I went to school with before my depression/anxiety started, and someone who also had to leave school early and is basicly the only friend I have who lives anywhere near me. If it wasn't for the MSN'ing with him I'd Have ZERO friends.

I know you'll likely say 'Just hang out IRL with him then' but I have servere social anxiety, so it's not as simple as that...

So yeah, it's hit me hard, I'm not sure what to say or do. Benedict and Emor will be able to relate to this better than most since they knew him too over MSN.

 

[Ruby_Aspergic]

I know how you feel, this happens to me a lot, too. I've just had to join more forums and find more online friends.

 

[D temp]

I know how you feel, this happens to me a lot, too. I've just had to join more forums and find more online friends.

It's not an online friend... It's someone I used to hang out with irl but since we both developed depression and anxiety issues we only talked over the comp for years (Well I see him like once every 3 months... but I HATE hanging with people irl). Since he's gotten over his he's not talking to people on MSN anymore and goes out instead. I can't go out and join him unless I want my life to be a misery.

 

[Ruby_Aspergic]

I understood that. I have to find online friends to compensate for lost IRL ones. I only have one IRL left.

I have a hard time when one of my online friends signs on for like five minutes to talk to me and then they leave because they have something else to do and don't want to sit online all night. Then I wonder what I am supposed to do without them. :\ I think I used to guilt my friends when they would try to sign off so I don't say anything anymore. I guess I am just supposed to be by myself and they aren't.

 

[kurgen]

wow cool you people have friends i don't have any but i am ok with it, i have my car wich i am busy with building sideskirts and wide body kit and other hobby's

 

[Chris]

That really sucks. I remember Willow saying those words (or similar) once or twice before. I didn't let on, but it really tore me up. (We used to be friends online like... 24/7 for a little while before I could drive, during the summer holidays and more sparsely before that)

wow cool you people have friends i don't have any but i am ok with it, i have my car wich i am busy with building sideskirts and wide body kit and other hobby's

Pics?

 

[kurgen]

That really sucks. I remember Willow saying those words (or similar) once or twice before. I didn't let on, but it really tore me up. (We used to be friends online like... 24/7 for a little while before I could drive, during the summer holidays and more sparsely before that)



Pics?

Ah crap man, but you and Willow are together now? (Correct me if i am wrong)

No pics on this computer i do have it on my laptop but will upload these tomorrow... i have a second car that i will build to it's original state and sell it aswell

 

[Chris]

Yeah. Together... and living together.

 

[kurgen]

Yeah. Together... and living together.

Good for you two, happy for you i am still in my parents house at the age of 24

 

[kurgen]

That really sucks. I remember Willow saying those words (or similar) once or twice before. I didn't let on, but it really tore me up. (We used to be friends online like... 24/7 for a little while before I could drive, during the summer holidays and more sparsely before that)



Pics?

I finally got some old pics for you lolz

It's a Opel (Vauxhall) Astra 1.4 from 1993 automatic because i am lazy

 

[Chris]

Heh cool.

 

[kurgen]

yeah the last owner only had a power filter installed without a good exhaust so i got a remus exhaust underneath it for just that 10hp more and of course the sound huh

Now my second car...

Is a Fiat Punto selecta 60 1.2 small engine but cheap in cost i want to get this car to the classic original state so i can sell it again, the last owner of this car had a cyclist on the bonnet so i am fixing this

 

[Chris]

Lol, pfft. I just have a Fiesta diesel atm. 50-65mpg. Love it, until I can afford an overfinch range rover, and the fuel to go with it. :lol:

 

[gamers1700]

Isn't diesel cheaper than regular gas? Would it be worth buying parts to upgrade and trade off + money for that other vehicle you want?

 

[kurgen]

Here in Holland it is cheaper to drive a petrol car than a diesel! The road tax of a petrol car like my fiat is only rated at 30 euro's a month and the insurance is only 32 euro a month so go figure ;-) if you take a diesel, you would have to pay like 120 euro road tax and 45 euro insurance, diesel has the same road-tax as a gas/g3 installation and lpg is twice as expensive....

except if your car is older than 25 years you don't pay road-tax and you'll pay a cheaper insurance ..... an old-timer insurance.....

 

[D temp]

Yeah, thanks for staying on-topic. :whistle:

 

[Chris]

Sorry for the hi-jack. I blame Kurgen.

 

[D temp]

Sorry for the hi-jack. I blame Kurgen.

Actually, I'm sorry for being a bit snappy-like. Not fair to take it out on others. ^^

 

[kurgen]

Sorry Danny,

Guess i am in the same position, maybe you'd like to talk with some of us on msn?

 

[superboyian]

This stuff happens to me a few times, it's happened to me once when my friend IRL had asked me for a favor but then I started to feel uncomfortable about it, since then, we haven't spoken, I've lost him completely.

There was also this other one and he told me that he will not go on msn for a while, and since then I haven't heard from him either until I heard from another friend of mine that he blocked me. :thumbsdown:

Those two are not very good friends and I knew them IRL... I was left devastated, but it isn't the end of the world, at least I still know who my true friends are.

Sorry to hear about your news Danny.