I'm finally getting around to taking the RAADS-R. I have a lot of difficulty with these self-assessments because I spend so much time considering the wording and specificity of the questions.
For example: "I only like to think and talk about a few things that interest me." Is question 13, and I don't know how to answer this. I can certainly think and talk about things that don't interest me - there are a lot of aspects of life to deal with that don't interest me. And when I caught myself thinking about this, I decided that maybe I'm taking it too literally. But my issue is that they used the word "only"! How can I assume they meant "usually" or "most often" when those are completely different from "only", y'know? I do enjoy talking and thinking about my interests all the time. But it's not like they're the only things to occupy my mind. I think about my taxes, even though taxes are not at all an interest of mine.
I can also tell that if I answer "true for now and when I was younger", that gets me more points. My knowledge of that makes me feel as though I'm being disingenuous and maybe even skewing the results by being aware of this.
I know it's not that deep since it's just an online test. But this is why I still haven't been able to finish most of these tests. It's impossible for me to feel like I've answered honestly. There's also no room for nuance. It really makes me wish I had the means to get evaluated.
For example: "I only like to think and talk about a few things that interest me." Is question 13, and I don't know how to answer this. I can certainly think and talk about things that don't interest me - there are a lot of aspects of life to deal with that don't interest me. And when I caught myself thinking about this, I decided that maybe I'm taking it too literally. But my issue is that they used the word "only"! How can I assume they meant "usually" or "most often" when those are completely different from "only", y'know? I do enjoy talking and thinking about my interests all the time. But it's not like they're the only things to occupy my mind. I think about my taxes, even though taxes are not at all an interest of mine.
I can also tell that if I answer "true for now and when I was younger", that gets me more points. My knowledge of that makes me feel as though I'm being disingenuous and maybe even skewing the results by being aware of this.
I know it's not that deep since it's just an online test. But this is why I still haven't been able to finish most of these tests. It's impossible for me to feel like I've answered honestly. There's also no room for nuance. It really makes me wish I had the means to get evaluated.