I always hesitate when I post a thread, but recently, an aspie told me that what a great post it was and that made me feel so good.
I have also taken courage and typed out a 5 page letter to my elders ( I am one of Jehovah's Witnesses). For some time I have had the sense I should open up to them regarding my past, but very fearful of exposing myself. Then another one revealed that she had opened up and the elders were really supportive and I thought: if every one did the same, it would help a great deal and so, with a lot of fear I did it. It was just awful and I sobbed through most of it, but I took courage and handed it over to an elder who has been so kind to me and soon enough, another elder asked my husband if he knew that I was doing this? My husband did, but not fully involved and the brother said: it makes for sad, sad, sad read. And I sense a gentleness coming from him.
Some posts I do not answer to, on here, because I do not agree with the post and so, do not wish to offend. Other times, I will answer just to let the person know that their post is not in vain.
I try to live my life as: do to others, what you wish done to you.