My son, currently in kindergarten, is being assessed for an IEP at his school and we're starting to get the results of the various assessments. It turns that spoken language is one of his strengths and in particular his pragmatic judgement was rated as being superior (upper 99%-tile) for children his age. The school speech therapist told us this was unusual because most kids on the spectrum have difficulty with this area. I'm now starting to think this whole ASD thing is just a clever ruse on his part so he can get away with stuff... ;-) Seriously, I've I gone back and forth on his ASD diagnosis and I was feeling OK with it for a while, but this just raises new doubts in my mind. Any thoughts?