NoKipAr on the run
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I didn't want to make this "3 simple Rules for Breaking Up"
or the classic "8 Simple rules for Dating my Teenaged Daughter".... or the Family Guy spoof "Stalking".
personally, I don't believe in stalking.
I try hard not to come off as needy. but, I just want to lay down some rules. I just so happen to be, myself, an old fashioned romanticist.
first rule: COVID ruined my behavior around women. So you might not want to be my comfortable significant other at a random old time.
just remember: I am Pans. and Bi. though I think about women more than I think about any other gender/sexual identity etc.
I would like to say that whoever you are that I may want to consider a relationship with, be you a Trans woman, a Skinny Man, a Woman, whatever I perfer, what ever it takes.... it does not matter, I want someone because I spend a lot of time usually either creating ideas for stories from the simple to the complex, pacing around and stimming, also engaging in my Pyschosis, which, I don't think any one else has even realized it when it first came to me---- COVID made my Psychosis worse. muuuch worse. I don't know what COVID has to do with getting a lover, in fact this "Anti-Prophet" guy I have been listening to, I'm trying to agree with what he says, but, the main thing still stays: I love going out. I love being in places like Theaters, Restaurants, other cities and towns.... look! I didn't have a plan for this rule, but the fact is, if you want to treat me, don't overwhelm me, because my household, which my Uncle who owns a lot of Liquor stores, is not Disney land. that's probably what I wanted to say, but this list of rules is very unstructed, so bare with me as I write it.
second rule: I am open to respect my peer's beliefs and opinions. hell! I'm not picky! so if you like "Haruhi Suzimiya"? that's a horrendous anime in my opinion, but I'll learn! if George Lucas can tell his story in reverse, then I can get to understand WHY IT TURNS INTO a PHOENIX WRONG! ...if you want to watch Barney the Dinosaur, orr orrr orrrrr... or Thomas the Tank Engine, sure! I'll watch it to bond with you! but please, no Adult baby fetishes (I'll get more into Kinks later), and if you like shows like "Grim adventures of Billy and Mandy"? I'll watch that! I legit loved that show as a kid! THE CREATOR OF THAT SHOW IS AUTISTIC!
I would personally get these "What if" senarios from my friends saying "What if your lover doesn't like animation"? who hates animation...? IF YOU ARE INSISTING ON MAKING IT A STEREOTYPE THAT IT'S FOR KIDS.....maybe watching something like "Family Guy" "Drawn Together" or "Robot Chicken" doesn't make you adult. it just makes you even more childish. so if you're not into Animation I can always offer puppets. take a looksee at this character Lizo! he was originally, aside from being my Mascot, I wanted him to be a cartoon that captures the magic of Calvin and Hobbes (yo!) and Peanuts. Stuff like Far Side and the like. A friend and I were going to make our own Puppet show with this "Lizo". it is from a cartoon I created called "Lab Living". so if you don't want me to gush about any animation stuff, fine. we'll find ground with other topics, like Video Games, and Sci fi, and even hell! I guess even .....................hmmmmmmmmmmmm well, I guess it wouldn't hurt to show some common interest, not just in Japanese anime, but Stop motion, Computerized animation like Shrek and Pixar, Adult swim, making our own animations, and even.........Gendy whatshisname who's buds with
Craig.
third rule: don't be ashamed. I love a lot of women. I love red hair, I love Emos, I love women who are curvy, I love women who are nerdy, women who are either Tall, petite like this one girl I knew from a Grocery store (who likes "Minecraft" and "Ghibli") women who have dark skin, women who have beefy muscles, women with ....look, the conciseness is this: I will not ridicule you for your looks, your ethnicity, your weight, your wealth of knowledge on a certain topic. and men? depends. are you into my favorite things like animation, both western and japanese? do you have Asperger's? am I willing to trust you? are you a skinny man? the answer by that approach is yes. but if I see you and you're a bear? (am I allowed to use that term? sorry if I'm not) then I know you are either a good guy with those traits in mind, asperger's, interests et cetera, but I do not want a guy, and I am not just talking men, Bears or skinny men (Am I allowed to use the "T" word?) I am talking women, And I also have my eye bullseye targeted to Trans women, who I care about deeply and so much, do not act completely heartless around me, I already have a lot of Trauma about bullying in High school, for being a Virgin, and Autistic. so please, show some respect, the way I would respect you back.
note: I know I respect the LGBT community by the fact that I had a dream where I entered a room, and I saw a Trans woman doing make up in the mirror, meanwhile her lover was on her death bed, and I saw her have some weird THING come out of her ear, looked very flesh-based and device-like...........and I watched as I saw her die on her death bed, And I think that is why I respect LGBT and not just want to be with someone with my genitals, for personal gain. I'm a good person, I mean it.
fourth rule: I said we were getting to it, and here we are. No sexual Deviancy, please. If I see any sex toys or whatever, that's a red flag. tell me this: aren't toys used for Kids to play with? no whips. I'm not judging, but that S&M stuff is where I draw the line. so role play would be nice if it doesn't come to fuzzy whatever, or cuffs, or feathers. I remember I never did have the talk with my father thanks to Porn and Hentai. so what else? yeah.
Underwear stuff like Lingere might be nice. and I don't really like stuff like using reverse psychology 24/7. I am allowed to like Scene, Punk, goth, but I am not going to do anything that literally makes any sort of bondage. a family member of mine might be a Bondage Fetishist (I'm not saying who) but
if you want to do stuff like cold showers.....whatever you want. it's fine. but please....we can at least use birth control. I want to have kids someday, but as we all want to say/know we want to concretely have in mind: not now. and If I do have little Sabrina and Hugo (or something) I will be a very strict parent.
fifth rule: Arguments. I always have to deal with arguments in my brain. it just goes nowhere, And I have to admit I'm in the wrong. I hate pissing people off. makes me feel like I'm being a terrible person. I love and respect everyone from my dog, Maverick, to my parents to-- listen, I will always apologize sensitively. and sincerely. And, after all, when a break up comes, I will find someone else. although I have never been in a relationship in my WHOLE LIFE! I will have to take a moment after a break up if one comes up, but if this relationship comes to the point where we get hitched, or at least engaged, I will be a grateful person. I promise. and divorce? I will probably never want that. because I am in fact, so nice, that even if I am kind of a simp, I am still tender and I respect people who I expect to respect me back. so finally.....
final rule (though I can only guess why this is a final rule lol) don't distract me from important things, I for one have to study math, and someday animation! don't take me away from my friends or my family. you'll love my friends and family. they can be supportive, and some of us are very creative. if you come to me and you are anything like girls in tik tok, I probably won't talk to you, mainly because I have other stuff on my mind; ideas, grocery shopping, school, interests! so please....
don't judge me. and please follow the rules. because as the "Sunscreen song" goes:
don't be reckless with other people's hearts. don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.
with much condolences,
Kevin.
or the classic "8 Simple rules for Dating my Teenaged Daughter".... or the Family Guy spoof "Stalking".
personally, I don't believe in stalking.
I try hard not to come off as needy. but, I just want to lay down some rules. I just so happen to be, myself, an old fashioned romanticist.
first rule: COVID ruined my behavior around women. So you might not want to be my comfortable significant other at a random old time.
just remember: I am Pans. and Bi. though I think about women more than I think about any other gender/sexual identity etc.
I would like to say that whoever you are that I may want to consider a relationship with, be you a Trans woman, a Skinny Man, a Woman, whatever I perfer, what ever it takes.... it does not matter, I want someone because I spend a lot of time usually either creating ideas for stories from the simple to the complex, pacing around and stimming, also engaging in my Pyschosis, which, I don't think any one else has even realized it when it first came to me---- COVID made my Psychosis worse. muuuch worse. I don't know what COVID has to do with getting a lover, in fact this "Anti-Prophet" guy I have been listening to, I'm trying to agree with what he says, but, the main thing still stays: I love going out. I love being in places like Theaters, Restaurants, other cities and towns.... look! I didn't have a plan for this rule, but the fact is, if you want to treat me, don't overwhelm me, because my household, which my Uncle who owns a lot of Liquor stores, is not Disney land. that's probably what I wanted to say, but this list of rules is very unstructed, so bare with me as I write it.
second rule: I am open to respect my peer's beliefs and opinions. hell! I'm not picky! so if you like "Haruhi Suzimiya"? that's a horrendous anime in my opinion, but I'll learn! if George Lucas can tell his story in reverse, then I can get to understand WHY IT TURNS INTO a PHOENIX WRONG! ...if you want to watch Barney the Dinosaur, orr orrr orrrrr... or Thomas the Tank Engine, sure! I'll watch it to bond with you! but please, no Adult baby fetishes (I'll get more into Kinks later), and if you like shows like "Grim adventures of Billy and Mandy"? I'll watch that! I legit loved that show as a kid! THE CREATOR OF THAT SHOW IS AUTISTIC!
I would personally get these "What if" senarios from my friends saying "What if your lover doesn't like animation"? who hates animation...? IF YOU ARE INSISTING ON MAKING IT A STEREOTYPE THAT IT'S FOR KIDS.....maybe watching something like "Family Guy" "Drawn Together" or "Robot Chicken" doesn't make you adult. it just makes you even more childish. so if you're not into Animation I can always offer puppets. take a looksee at this character Lizo! he was originally, aside from being my Mascot, I wanted him to be a cartoon that captures the magic of Calvin and Hobbes (yo!) and Peanuts. Stuff like Far Side and the like. A friend and I were going to make our own Puppet show with this "Lizo". it is from a cartoon I created called "Lab Living". so if you don't want me to gush about any animation stuff, fine. we'll find ground with other topics, like Video Games, and Sci fi, and even hell! I guess even .....................hmmmmmmmmmmmm well, I guess it wouldn't hurt to show some common interest, not just in Japanese anime, but Stop motion, Computerized animation like Shrek and Pixar, Adult swim, making our own animations, and even.........Gendy whatshisname who's buds with
Craig.
third rule: don't be ashamed. I love a lot of women. I love red hair, I love Emos, I love women who are curvy, I love women who are nerdy, women who are either Tall, petite like this one girl I knew from a Grocery store (who likes "Minecraft" and "Ghibli") women who have dark skin, women who have beefy muscles, women with ....look, the conciseness is this: I will not ridicule you for your looks, your ethnicity, your weight, your wealth of knowledge on a certain topic. and men? depends. are you into my favorite things like animation, both western and japanese? do you have Asperger's? am I willing to trust you? are you a skinny man? the answer by that approach is yes. but if I see you and you're a bear? (am I allowed to use that term? sorry if I'm not) then I know you are either a good guy with those traits in mind, asperger's, interests et cetera, but I do not want a guy, and I am not just talking men, Bears or skinny men (Am I allowed to use the "T" word?) I am talking women, And I also have my eye bullseye targeted to Trans women, who I care about deeply and so much, do not act completely heartless around me, I already have a lot of Trauma about bullying in High school, for being a Virgin, and Autistic. so please, show some respect, the way I would respect you back.
note: I know I respect the LGBT community by the fact that I had a dream where I entered a room, and I saw a Trans woman doing make up in the mirror, meanwhile her lover was on her death bed, and I saw her have some weird THING come out of her ear, looked very flesh-based and device-like...........and I watched as I saw her die on her death bed, And I think that is why I respect LGBT and not just want to be with someone with my genitals, for personal gain. I'm a good person, I mean it.
fourth rule: I said we were getting to it, and here we are. No sexual Deviancy, please. If I see any sex toys or whatever, that's a red flag. tell me this: aren't toys used for Kids to play with? no whips. I'm not judging, but that S&M stuff is where I draw the line. so role play would be nice if it doesn't come to fuzzy whatever, or cuffs, or feathers. I remember I never did have the talk with my father thanks to Porn and Hentai. so what else? yeah.
Underwear stuff like Lingere might be nice. and I don't really like stuff like using reverse psychology 24/7. I am allowed to like Scene, Punk, goth, but I am not going to do anything that literally makes any sort of bondage. a family member of mine might be a Bondage Fetishist (I'm not saying who) but
if you want to do stuff like cold showers.....whatever you want. it's fine. but please....we can at least use birth control. I want to have kids someday, but as we all want to say/know we want to concretely have in mind: not now. and If I do have little Sabrina and Hugo (or something) I will be a very strict parent.
fifth rule: Arguments. I always have to deal with arguments in my brain. it just goes nowhere, And I have to admit I'm in the wrong. I hate pissing people off. makes me feel like I'm being a terrible person. I love and respect everyone from my dog, Maverick, to my parents to-- listen, I will always apologize sensitively. and sincerely. And, after all, when a break up comes, I will find someone else. although I have never been in a relationship in my WHOLE LIFE! I will have to take a moment after a break up if one comes up, but if this relationship comes to the point where we get hitched, or at least engaged, I will be a grateful person. I promise. and divorce? I will probably never want that. because I am in fact, so nice, that even if I am kind of a simp, I am still tender and I respect people who I expect to respect me back. so finally.....
final rule (though I can only guess why this is a final rule lol) don't distract me from important things, I for one have to study math, and someday animation! don't take me away from my friends or my family. you'll love my friends and family. they can be supportive, and some of us are very creative. if you come to me and you are anything like girls in tik tok, I probably won't talk to you, mainly because I have other stuff on my mind; ideas, grocery shopping, school, interests! so please....
don't judge me. and please follow the rules. because as the "Sunscreen song" goes:
don't be reckless with other people's hearts. don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.
with much condolences,
Kevin.
