So confused with someone's behaviour towards me

[Suzanne]

I have known this female for some years and actually her attitude towards me has never changed, and have been utterly confused, but of recent times, even worse.

I received a lovely present from her and a card and then, a text, which was so sweet, but when I am face to face with her, she treats me subhuman. I try my best to be friendly, but she barely wants to be in my company. I just do not get this behaviour. Makes me terribly uncomfortable with the apparent contradiction. Oh and she is very friendly towards others.

 

[Judge]

I could say the same about the one person I'm most likely to interact with in person. (Which isn't saying much these days, either in person or on the phone. - My own cousin.)

Reminiscent of characters like Blanche Hudson in "What Ever Happened To Baby Jane".

 

[thejuice]

I put fake people in the bin.

 

[thejuice]

I will concede it's harder if you're in forced close proximity

 

[jsilver256]

Autistics are notoriously poor at reading intent. Maybe she just doesn't enjoy interacting with others in person. I know I don't.

 

[Alexej]

I received a lovely present from her and a card and then, a text, which was so sweet, but when I am face to face with her, she treats me subhuman. I try my best to be friendly, but she barely wants to be in my company. I just do not get this behaviour. Makes me terribly uncomfortable with the apparent contradiction. Oh and she is very friendly towards others.

It does not make much sense to me either