Sorry I been so grouchy lately.

[Tony Ramirez]

It's been a difficult couple of week. I don't if I still have true friends or not. I am tired of seeing them blessed with new children. Two couples are expecting and boasting about it. Meanwhile two already had babies and I feel more rotten I am still single attending for four and half years of socializing. Doing so much, even losing weight seems like nothing has changed.

This is why I been in a rotten mood. Also hearing from the same people telling me I am not ready and a relationship won't help does not help either. I just want to be that more content person I was a month ago at least but when I go out and see couples with their kids, men and women holding hands. A woman that looks like she is by herself until her man comes makes me feel more rotten and wishes I didn't get out if bed.

I am still getting out if bed even though I been skipping yoga some mornings as it's most mornings just old people who attended. I been only going to the gym once a week. I also feel like I am gaining weight again.

 

[elgat0verde]

Let go dude... Let go of those thoughts

If you wanna be content start inside and don't be sorry for having feelings

You are human, you are SUPPOSED to have feelings dude it's what you do with those feelings that matters

It's a long road out there dude! And it's a road you've got to thread with YOU

YOU are the only constant in your life and I hope one day you see this... I didn't see it for the longest time but now I'm starting to

Things won't change if you don't change dude

In my case I am just trying to let you see that you can't define your life comparing yourself to other people

I bet other people here are trying to help you too to realize that happiness is within

I will back off dude

I just wish you one day find the light and find your inner worth and inner love

Once you walk life with that confidence and that love from within, things will change

Keep shining star

You've got this

I believe in you

 

[Forest Cat]

That's ok, it's autumn, a difficult time of year. Good luck with everything.

 

[Rodafina]

I am still getting out if bed even though I been skipping yoga some mornings as it's most mornings just old people who attended. I been only going to the gym once a week. I also feel like I am gaining weight again.

That's good that you are getting out of bed. I know you said you've been feeling like there is no point in doing that. I understand completely having the feeling of not wanting to get out of bed for days and weeks on end. Sometimes, depression can just take over, but it does not have to stay like this forever.

Anytime you can get yourself out of bed and move a little bit in the day, that is a good thing. You are feeling down, so look to the small victories for now. Don't forget about water, fresh air, and just putting on clean clothes every day. This can help us move through the worst of it and find motivation again. Wishing you happier days ahead.

 

[Dagan]

We all have our moments. I have had grumpies some. At times, it's just me "speaking" while processing. I second Rodafina that you have to just force yourself up and about here and there. None of us are immune to spirals and feeling down, I assure you.

 

[MROSS]

Let go dude... Let go of those thoughts

If you wanna be content start inside and don't be sorry for having feelings

You are human, you are SUPPOSED to have feelings dude it's what you do with those feelings that matters

It's a long road out there dude! And it's a road you've got to thread with YOU

YOU are the only constant in your life and I hope one day you see this... I didn't see it for the longest time but now I'm starting to

Things won't change if you don't change dude

In my case I am just trying to let you see that you can't define your life comparing yourself to other people

I bet other people here are trying to help you too to realize that happiness is within

I will back off dude

I just wish you one day find the light and find your inner worth and inner love

Once you walk life with that confidence and that love from within, things will change

Keep shining star

You've got this

I believe in you

Comparing oneself to others often (sooner of later) feels like apples and oranges comparisions.

 

[Tony Ramirez]

I'm good now. Not grouchy no more. I talked to my yoga teacher last night and my married friend today. They said to be thankful for all the friends I have now no matter what there relationship status is. My yoga teacher said not to let those single woman bother me. To love myself. My friend said not to push away the people who care for me.

 

[MNAus]

I'm good now. Not grouchy no more. I talked to my yoga teacher last night and my married friend today. They said to be thankful for all the friends I have now no matter what there relationship status is. My yoga teacher said not to let those single woman bother me. To love myself. My friend said not to push away the people who care for me.

Grouchy is ok sometimes. You have hopes and it can hurt when others seem to be enjoying the things you want. No shame or harm in that. Your friends are right though, steer it in a positive direction and recognise what you have. Happy to hear you're feeling more cheerful.