Still unsure newbie with a lot going on

[My Body Myself]

Thanx for creating and running this site and forums.

My name is Jessica A. Still live with my parents and have an fraternal twin sister as well. Live in Metro New York on New Jersey side of it USA. Born with a Neurologically based speech impairment/apraxia-dysarthria. Suffering from depression/anxiety for awhile now. Yet to reach this stage of life and etc. I'm an of an Student of Life and Clerical Volunteer.

At the same time have a lot going on with myself.

Please feel free do an external search on me (My Body, Myself, Student of Life, mybodymyself, jessica b, jessicaabruno) to see the rest of my past work that I did on other site and forums. Don?t worry have since left all of those forums for this one.

What the heck has happen to another sites and forums? Mean it could that it could be new and/or old sites and forums because all of this appears to be copycats and etc. As opposed to starting fresh or whatever its called. As for me have been on lot of them, but somehow never felt quite right on any of them. Or at least consider joining, but didn't in the end. Hoping that I will feel home here and stay for good.

These are messages that I have been receiving on a few of the forums that I recently tried, but didn't work out for me. That I wanted to share with you and the others.

Hello and welcome to our forums (of course removed the name of the site and forums from here)!

I see that you are trying to find a place where you "fit" and I understand that. If you read our posting guidelines, you will get a lot of your answers as to what we allow and don't allow on this site. The owner pays for the this site and is allowed to make the rules that govern it. We also do not allow members to advertise nor post links to other sites without permission. The main of the goal for this site is to encourage people to live within their means and share ways that we have learned to save money in a loving and supportive way.
You are more than welcome to participate here at forums, but know that some of what happened at the other sites might also happen here if you are not able to follow the posting guidelines.
Thanks and blessings
name of a admin on those forums

You have been banned for the following reason:known spammer

Date the ban will be lifted: Never

This is from another response that I got from a owner or admin of a another forum that I tried that I just received from another forum that I left when I found here.

Please note that as per our registration terms we are a private forum. We choose the way we run and monitor our content and do not tolerate advertising of any kind. All that said I hope you enjoy our community.

Heres my response which I did in another thread in another area of the forum.

Why did you unapproved one of my posts and threads? Even though I understand why you did it, but those links are to a non for profit organization as opposed to what you thought they were. Those are the only links that I activate promote anyway. Is/there other way/s to promote those links or what?

Heres what the owner or admin said in response to my question on this.

Hi,I am glad you understand.

As per the registration terms we do not allow any advertising. It does not matter what kind of advertising it is! Profit, non-profit, charity or personal website. The rule is simple straight forward and enforced.

If you want to promote links or other websites then may I suggest you do what most people do and go and pay for them to be advertised properly on a commercial website that accepts advertising and not on a private forum.

Thanks,

As this matter is not open for discussion I am now closing this thread.

Have also freed from all of the other forums that I used belong to and removed all of my personal info them as well. Found why continue with those when I have here for everything and etc. This also goes for paid subscriptions as well.

This isn't the first time that I have wondered about this.

Do you think its right for forums and etc to have paid subscriptions and why?

As for me I was never that crazy about paid subscriptions. Especially, when it turned out that it wasn't right (their end or my end or neither end). I no longer use paypal because had bad experiences using it.

 

[IContainMultitudes]

Welcome to Aspies Central!

 

[2010Dolby]

Do you think its right for forums and etc to have paid subscriptions and why?

As for me I was never that crazy about paid subscriptions. Especially, when it turned out that it wasn't right (their end or my end or neither end). I no longer use paypal because had bad experiences using it.

I dont see a problem with paid subscriptions. The only reason I havent donated some cash here yet is because I have all my money tied up in assets for my job (my car, my truck, power-tools, rental tools). Once I get my investment back from my boss and my end-of-work-season bonus Ill gladly contribute.

Im not a very technologically or internet intelligent person, but running and owning a website costs money. So it seems like throwing some cash back towards the owners seems like an alright idea.

But anyway, welcome to AC!

 

[My Body Myself]

I dont see a problem with paid subscriptions. The only reason I havent donated some cash here yet is because I have all my money tied up in assets for my job (my car, my truck, power-tools, rental tools). Once I get my investment back from my boss and my end-of-work-season bonus Ill gladly contribute.

Im not a very technologically or internet intelligent person, but running and owning a website costs money. So it seems like throwing some cash back towards the owners seems like an alright idea.

But anyway, welcome to AC!

Doby,

Thanx for the welcome to here. Um interesting take you have on this.

 

[kasmanaft08]

Do you think its right for forums and etc to have paid subscriptions and why?

As for me I was never that crazy about paid subscriptions. Especially, when it turned out that it wasn't right (their end or my end or neither end). I no longer use paypal because had bad experiences using it.[/FONT]

I also want to point out that it's not exactly a requirement to donate any sort of money, and making money isn't exactly the goal of this site. The goal is to bring Aspies together and give us a sort of social outlet/support group amongst ourselves.

But as far as whether it's right, websites do cost money (and time!) to maintain. No one will pressure you for a donation, or treat you with less respect because of it, I assure you. So, Welcome