Things people said/did that make you feel bad right now

[Ana54]

My father is an angry, hateful person.


My mother can also be an angry, hateful person who tries and goes out of her way to make you feel bad and says untrue bad things about you and then says "It wasn't my fault; I was angry."


Sinsboldly tries to make me feel like I did something terrible. I did a lot of good, too. Who ever complained about my complaining about my life, except the MODERATORS?

 

[Emor]

Depressing thread much.
People who say my life is pointless.
People who say I'm ugly(I'm not that bothered, it's just it's stupid to not act like superficial judgement doesn't exist, and thus being unattractive sucks).
My ex constantly making me feel guilty for stuff I didn't do(i.e relatives dying, etc.).
Some things people online have said to me who I've know for years when they were angry. It upsets me because it's probably true.
The people who always try and make me talk at lunch time by throwing my stuff on the floor, ripping my earphones out, pushing me, etc.
People who think they are better than me, or are more intelligent, because I don't care about talking to them.
God. I could go on forever. But those have been somethings that have been upsetting me recently.
EMZ=/

 

[Ana54]

Emor, your ex is a shithead and I have had to deal with those immature brats in school too.


I hate people who say I need to buck up and grow up and get over things. I'll do it RIGHT, on my schedule, not theirs. They are idiots thinking them just telling me to will automatically make everything right, and make me do it for real rather than just faking it for them. Btw, I don't lie, fake things, exaggerate, etc.


Then there are those brats who treat me as tho I killed their friend just because I mentioned the name of her murderer on her memorial site and how maybe they're friends now in the afterlife.

 

[Emor]

Yeah :/. I'm going to confront him on Monday about everything. IDK how it's going to work.
It sucks people don't understand you. I generally don't speak at things like funerals and stuff because I _always_ say the wrong thing. Esp. when I try to make people happy. I can relate their, when you're just trying to make a sad situation a bit happier, and not really noticing people just want to be sad out of respect, and then people taking great offence.
EMZ=]

 

[Ana54]

They just wanted someone to take their anger out on. they called me sick, they said someone should delete myh awful posts from the memorial site, they even said someone should call the policve, though nobody did (to my knowledge). They told me "You had better learn tact and respect, FAST." How was what I said disrespectful?


Oh, well. They're just children. These days kids remain kids for a long time. They were her friends, from age 16 to 24, I'm guessing, and privileged.

 

[TV-STAR]

thats a lot to list and one i cant even post or mention as its being investigated but here is one that has just upset me a minute ago someone called me a liar

 

[Emor]

They just wanted someone to take their anger out on. they called me sick, they said someone should delete myh awful posts from the memorial site, they even said someone should call the policve, though nobody did (to my knowledge). They told me "You had better learn tact and respect, FAST." How was what I said disrespectful?


Oh, well. They're just children. These days kids remain kids for a long time. They were her friends, from age 16 to 24, I'm guessing, and privileged.

I think it's because their friend had just died because of a murderer. They hate the murderer and someone trying to say anything but negative about them would just really piss them off.
IDK how to explain it.
IMO, it wasn't a good idea to say what you said, but you didn't know, and their reaction was bad because they didn't take that into consideration.
I think they must have interpreted it as you making a joke out of her?
Which people would've taken major offence too.
You weren't in the wrong or w.e though.
In my social skills last week someone tried to make someone happy who had just got back from a funeral by making a joke, and then the leader said that it's okay to make people happy when they're a bit down but when they're distraught it's not.
EMZ=]

 

[Ana54]

I disappointed my boyfriend. I'm so sorry. I feel like committing suicide just to get attention, forgetting that maybe I might not get to watch their reactions after I'm dead.

 

[poodlepiglet]

It is years ago, when I was still on a roll. I asked my Mom what job would suit me, and she said. aah I don't know some bitchy boss I guess.
But that was years ago. I carry a lot of hurtful things inside. But that one has been particularly on my mind lately.

 

[Ruby_Aspergic]

I just got this in my email....

""Live up to your message in the BGS thread. Your mental health is at stake.

Please do as you said and just live life in there here in now and not online anymore.

You have spent an eternity claiming to have different LD's and whatnot just to get out of your Spanish classes. You bowed out of this silly web site like a Queen when more than one person called you out on a fair amount of what most anyone would refer to as fibbing.

I am sorry for having a good memory, btw. My memory is a blessing and a curse sometimes. For you, it is obviously a curse, but if you were not so keen on lying it wouldn't be.

Please just man up and do whatever you have to do to earn your University degree.

There is no way in God's green Earth that the majority of the claims you have made against the university are true at all and I also doubt that you are truly LD or have Asberger's at all.

It is obvious that you have spent an eternity on this web site racking your brain trying to figure out how you can get out of your Spanish requirements because you personaly do not think you should have to fufill them at all.

The persona you have created for yourself on this web site is fine and well. But the persona you have created on this web site is truly based upon your incessant lying because you personally do not wish to work with what your University has offered you period so you create more and more scenarios and various LD's and all of that online. This is not the real world, dear. This is online. No one in the real world would take your claims seriously and that is more than likely why your University did not at all.

The second someone calls ou out on your fibbing you freak out. But, shucks! All you have done is fib and fib and fib, so what do you expect.

Your University obviously made the right call. You will not accept it come heck or high water and are making excuses online to get out of what you should be doing in reality. Do you understand what I mean? You cannot circumvent the reality of your situation by fibbing online.

Move on.

And yes, drama queen, your future is very much at stake.

Personally I am tired to death of logging onto this web site and just having it be inevitable that you are fibbing and high jacking more and more threads about your shape shifting sotry of doom at the UofM.

So, I am done with this web site because of you and what little you are."

 

[poodlepiglet]

How awful Ruby.

 

[Emor]

Aww... ...
I wouldn't take offence Ruby. People like that like to think they're the only ones in the world who have problems and when they find out someone else attends a prestigious University and has a social life rather than spending all day in their parent's basement they get defensive and insist that the other person couldn't have problems because it doesn't help reinforce their delusion of their failure being down to their problems rather than them :/.
If that makes any sense.
But yeah. If anyone's lying, it's him (Y).
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[Ana54]

Bastard. Do you know how to put viruses on others' computers?


I have all these problems and my bf says I need my meds adjusted or changed and that me being this hysterical and depressed and sometimes suicidal/homicidal should get me into the mental hospital. He wants me to go. I might after the support groups I go to this week. If the support groups and seeing those psychologists don't help me, I'll probably feel bad enough to just go there and go inpatient.

 

[142857]

"We just don't really trust you is all..."

Heard that more times than I can remember, and almost all of them, I'd done nothing to give anyone any reason to think I was less than trustworthy.

I tend not to lie. Not because I am of good character, but because I am so bad at it.

 

[superboyian]

Apparently I haven't had anything that has upsetted me but back in the past when I could say I was a depressed person, alot of things used to upset me, yes, especially being called skinny or gay, those two would be those things that would used to upset me since I rememeber going through alot with somebody back in my class who would used to call me those, then random people started saying the same, now I just think, meh..

I don't really care now if they call me skinny, haven't been called gay for a very long and yes, I also had to change a few things about myself, I have to admit it actually worked and I seriously dunno how I did it?

 

[PanPaniscus]

My mum really annoyed me today by talking about me like I'm not there and saying stuff that just embarrasses me. I was on the computer in the living room and I never realised the dogs were digging up the tray of sawdust from cleaning the ginuea pig out and there was sawdust everywhere. I was too focused on the laptop to even look at anything else in the room. Anyway my mum comes stomping in shouting and stuff because of what the dogs were doing, then my dad comes in and has a go at me and says "why are you just sitting there??" and I said "I didn't notice". Then my dad goes out the room ranting and my mum says to him "it's nothing to do with Sophie! She barely notices anything around here when she's on the laptop etc etc" and basically saying what I already know but I don't want to hear it, so i shouted "what are you on about?? All I said was I didn't notice stop saying things like that! I'm not stupid" or something similar. So my mum makes these stupid excuses for me while my dad's having a go and I don't like it.
Yeah I know I hyperfocus on things and don't take notice of anything else, but stop reminding me and saying I got problems right infront of me like I'm not even listening.

 

[142857]

Telling lies and keeping a straight face, displaying no emotion, is the easy part.

It is maintaining the web of deceit that is difficult. To lie effectively one needs to be able to come up with convincing supporting statements on the fly. I have enough difficulty doing that when I a telling the truth.

Some aspies have short term memory issues. So maintaining the consistency of a bunch of statements that you are making up as you go without obvious hesitation can be nearly impossible.

I guess that we are all different. I am better at deep thought and lousy at thinking on my feet. And the latter is really needed to be a good liar.

 

[Ana54]

I don't lie to anyone anymore because it never pays. I would probably tell a Nazi where the Jews were hiding. I do not like it, therefore I have no practice. I don't lie to anyone, because the lie could get back to the people I love without me knowing to go and tell them it's a lie. I most certainly don't lie to my friends or deceive them in any other way. It is not affective and it is also damaging when one lies because they are ignorant, thinking they are telling the truth, so you stop telling them things. Telling people and explaining the whole truth rather than just shooting the ignorant person without explaining anything to them and without them learning anything, is way better.


I'm for MORE communication, not less.