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Unlikely Friends

Rodafina

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As many of you may know, this forum is the first time where I have felt reciprocal relationships and some semblance of connection to other human beings. Life has been lonely.

I am certainly one of those people who has formed attachments to objects in my life, like stones, statues, daggers, shapes in the woodwork, natural things like trees or rivers. These are the friends that I have had.

When I was traveling in Okinawa almost 20 years ago, I learned of the Shisa. Best if I leave the description to someone more articulate on the matter than me…

SHISA : THE GUARDIAN LIONS OF OKINAWA​

Shisa are a very common feature and distinctive trait of the culture of the Okinawa islands, and it is simply impossible to ignore them when staying on the islands.

This amusing part-lion animal is represented as a couple:
  • A closed-mouth female supposed to keep in the good spirits;
  • An open-mouthed male supposed to scare evil spirits away.

The Legend​

It is believed that Shisa were imported from China into the archipelago around the 15th century. Several stories recount the manner in which they arrived on the island with varying degrees of fantasy. The main one, however, seems to originate from Madanbashi, a village south of Naha.

According to this story, the villagers were regularly attacked by a giant dragon. One day, on the occasion of a visitfrom the king of the Ryukyu archipelago, one of the village priestesses noticed the Shisa figure (named Iri-nu) hanging from a necklace around his neck, which he had received from a Chinese diplomat in Shuri. As the monster was ready to attack, the priestess asked the king to hold up the necklace to the monster. There rose a thundering roar and the Shisa came to life, appealing to an enormous rock that fell from the sky and crushed the dragon’s tail. Unable to move, the dragon died and was later transformed into the Gana-Mui forest.

To this day, the inhabitants of Madanbashi continue to gather on the 15th of August to offer prayers and gifts (mainly fruits) to the Iri-nu statue, protector of the forest.

Shisa in modern culture​

Shisa, also known as 獅子 shi-shi ("lion") in the local language, are found everywhere in Okinawa. Because they are believed to provide protection, they often sit outside or on the roof of many buildings in the archipelago, including those of private houses, large stores, corporate buildings, hospitals and even schools.

Shisa also have cousins called 狛犬 koma-inu (“lion-dog") which you can sometimes see outside temples all over Japan, especially around torii ⛩️ in Shinto shrines.

Nowadays, Shisa come in many different varieties and shapes. Although statues and their figurine reproductions are the most common type - for sale at inflated prices on neatly arranged store shelves – they are also available on objects of all kinds, and figure hugely on T-shirts.

Some Shisa are featured with one paw laid upon a golden sphere supposed to symbolize good fortune

So, on the island of Okinawa, they are always seen in pairs.

Well, through several sad and very lonely experiences, I ended up with two unpaired Shisa dogs. Each had been separated from their pair, but alas, they found each other! It doesn’t matter that they don’t match, and it’s okay that they don’t exactly fit the legend. If you’ll notice, one is meant to be open-mouthed and the other close-mouthed, that is how the pairs are arranged in Okinawa. But it’s okay that they are imperfect, because they are friends. They are kindred spirits, and they are together now.

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La cosa più bella e allo stesso tempo più preoccupante della vita è il non poter conoscere cosa ci riserva il futuro.

I migliori rapporti sono quelli tra le persone improbabili, che si completano a vicenda, l'importante è non smettere mai di credere che domani potremmo incontrare il nostro shisha

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From the first I have felt welcomed in this community. That is why I have shared the personal, good and bad. So many have helped me think through my issues
 
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It’s really nice to be around people who not only welcome and accept you but also understand and often relate to issues that you are going through. Having someone say “I understand“ really helps to make you feel less alone and know that you’re not going crazy. I am really glad that this place means much to a lot of people.=).
 
It’s really nice to be around people who not only welcome and accept you but also understand and often relate to issues that you are going through. Having someone say “I understand“ really helps to make you feel less alone and know that you’re not going crazy. I am really glad that this place means much to a lot of people.=).
I am new here and excited to expand my social circle.

I have a number of neuro-diverse friends IRL - I attend a real life group and I have met friends of friends who are also neuro-diverse... and all that.

The neuro-diverse gang seem to stick together ❤️
 
There's a scene in, I think it's the second Legally Blond film, where she takes her dog to the dog clipping place and her dog is super keen on another person's dog, that person being a 'Normal is Good' kind of guy, and both owners are puzzled as the dogs are both boys... the assistant finally says loudly, 'Your dogs are Gay!' Love conquers all, so the guy accepts that his dog is gay despite that being hard for him to do.

Any hew, I related that so I can say, 'Your shisas are Gay!'.

They look cute.
 
As many of you may know, this forum is the first time where I have felt reciprocal relationships and some semblance of connection to other human beings. Life has been lonely.

I am certainly one of those people who has formed attachments to objects in my life, like stones, statues, daggers, shapes in the woodwork, natural things like trees or rivers. These are the friends that I have had.

When I was traveling in Okinawa almost 20 years ago, I learned of the Shisa. Best if I leave the description to someone more articulate on the matter than me…

SHISA : THE GUARDIAN LIONS OF OKINAWA​

Shisa are a very common feature and distinctive trait of the culture of the Okinawa islands, and it is simply impossible to ignore them when staying on the islands.

This amusing part-lion animal is represented as a couple:
  • A closed-mouth female supposed to keep in the good spirits;
  • An open-mouthed male supposed to scare evil spirits away.

The Legend​

It is believed that Shisa were imported from China into the archipelago around the 15th century. Several stories recount the manner in which they arrived on the island with varying degrees of fantasy. The main one, however, seems to originate from Madanbashi, a village south of Naha.

According to this story, the villagers were regularly attacked by a giant dragon. One day, on the occasion of a visitfrom the king of the Ryukyu archipelago, one of the village priestesses noticed the Shisa figure (named Iri-nu) hanging from a necklace around his neck, which he had received from a Chinese diplomat in Shuri. As the monster was ready to attack, the priestess asked the king to hold up the necklace to the monster. There rose a thundering roar and the Shisa came to life, appealing to an enormous rock that fell from the sky and crushed the dragon’s tail. Unable to move, the dragon died and was later transformed into the Gana-Mui forest.

To this day, the inhabitants of Madanbashi continue to gather on the 15th of August to offer prayers and gifts (mainly fruits) to the Iri-nu statue, protector of the forest.

Shisa in modern culture​

Shisa, also known as 獅子 shi-shi ("lion") in the local language, are found everywhere in Okinawa. Because they are believed to provide protection, they often sit outside or on the roof of many buildings in the archipelago, including those of private houses, large stores, corporate buildings, hospitals and even schools.

Shisa also have cousins called 狛犬 koma-inu (“lion-dog") which you can sometimes see outside temples all over Japan, especially around torii ⛩️ in Shinto shrines.

Nowadays, Shisa come in many different varieties and shapes. Although statues and their figurine reproductions are the most common type - for sale at inflated prices on neatly arranged store shelves – they are also available on objects of all kinds, and figure hugely on T-shirts.

Some Shisa are featured with one paw laid upon a golden sphere supposed to symbolize good fortune

So, on the island of Okinawa, they are always seen in pairs.

Well, through several sad and very lonely experiences, I ended up with two unpaired Shisa dogs. Each had been separated from their pair, but alas, they found each other! It doesn’t matter that they don’t match, and it’s okay that they don’t exactly fit the legend. If you’ll notice, one is meant to be open-mouthed and the other close-mouthed, that is how the pairs are arranged in Okinawa. But it’s okay that they are imperfect, because they are friends. They are kindred spirits, and they are together now.

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I love this! I'm glad they found eachother! :-) To me they look right at home!
 

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