Venting

[Italianbratxoxo]

I’m so tired of people telling me I’m strong when I just want help and support. Therapists suck where I live. My mom has contacted every therapist in my area and they reject me. But I’m not dying anytime soon so people just have to deal with it. My neighbors mentally abused me in 2020 to the point of suicide. Their negative energy is so bad that it makes people stay inside and hide from them. I don’t have any friends in the neighborhood because of the bad neighbors. The bad neighbors bully me too. I tried very hard not to get revenge on anyone anymore but it got to the point that I emailed the Hoa on my next door neighbor for blasting his music. I want to do so much more to him but I don’t want to get arrested. I’m much better than him. He’s an alcoholic and he smokes weed and he’s 63 years old. He’s not that smart either. He even threatened to Sue my parents when they did nothing wrong. I hope he gets arrested one day. I hope someone kicks him out of the neighborhood. He’s a neighbor from hell.

 

[Tom]

Bad neighbors is a bad situation indeed. Avoidence seems the best strategy with moving to a new place perhaps a goal. I am fortunate to live in a place where neighbors are fairly spaced out. You can just make their houses out thru the trees in most diresctions. As a rule I never complain about neighbors actions, and have gotten to know each a little or somewhat well thru the medium of dogs. Everybody has dogs (and guns) here and I love dogs and don't complain when they come into the yard, cause a bit of trouble, etc. I just try to take them home or coax them them that way even if somewhat agressive. It seems to have worked well as they in turn put up with my crazy little troublemaker Chihuahua pack. Dogs are a good socializing medium I think.

 

[Xinyta]

The mental health support sector is unfortunately spotty, in regards to people that actually care. It's a roll of the dice kinda thing.

But as far as neighbors. I personally have never encountered this. Though I have heard stories about it plenty. To be one that experiences it and even more so, as someone that's ASD. That's extra sucky. But we cannot control people. Only control the level we interact with said toxic people.

The best thing to do is to not give any crappy person, neighbor or not, the time of day. People that actively try to get under your skin, do it on purpose. There is purpose for everything people do, even if they don't realize it.

 

[Italianbratxoxo]

The mental health support sector is unfortunately spotty, in regards to people that actually care. It's a roll of the dice kinda thing.

But as far as neighbors. I personally have never encountered this. Though I have heard stories about it plenty. To be one that experiences it and even more so, as someone that's ASD. That's extra sucky. But we cannot control people. Only control the level we interact with said toxic people.

The best thing to do is to not give any crappy person, neighbor or not, the time of day. People that actively try to get under your skin, do it on purpose. There is purpose for everything people do, even if they don't realize it.

I try not to but he’s so annoying. I want to put him in prison. He murders people and he’s a bully. I hate bullies and I’ll do anything to get rid of them.

 

[tree]

I want to put him in prison. He murders people...

Literally?

 

[Italianbratxoxo]

Literally?

Yes. He scares me. Yet he’s so paranoid that someone is going to hurt him.

 

[tree]

If he has killed someone, why has he not been arrested?

 

[Italianbratxoxo]

If he has killed someone, why has he not been arrested?

I don’t know. I want him to get arrested. I’m not even making this up.

 

[tree]

What evidence is there that he is guilty of murder?