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After hanging out in the chat room the other day and totally bonding over how totally icky eye contact is (most of the time), I decided to see if I could find out why that's such a common issue to have.
I found this article: Why Kids With Autism May Avoid Eye Contact
It basically says that autistic children have more active peripheral than direct vision and that's why we're clumsy and get hit in the face with the ball all the time and also why as babies we don't focus on the eyes of our care givers. Then, the unconscious reaction is detest or disgust by our caregivers, which reinforces our social awkwardness.
I think this is a load of BS. For example, I video chat with my boyfriend since we're currently long distance and I still can't look him in the eye on my screen. But I have no problem at all looking him in the nose or the mouth. So why can my eyes focus on the nose right in front of my face but not the eyes right in front of my face?
I was wondering what other people had to say. Do you have trouble focusing on stuff right in front of you including people's eyes? Or are real live human eyeballs just a thing of their own? And why don't we have spectrum people who have symptoms of "lack of eyebrow contact"?
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I found this article: Why Kids With Autism May Avoid Eye Contact
It basically says that autistic children have more active peripheral than direct vision and that's why we're clumsy and get hit in the face with the ball all the time and also why as babies we don't focus on the eyes of our care givers. Then, the unconscious reaction is detest or disgust by our caregivers, which reinforces our social awkwardness.
I think this is a load of BS. For example, I video chat with my boyfriend since we're currently long distance and I still can't look him in the eye on my screen. But I have no problem at all looking him in the nose or the mouth. So why can my eyes focus on the nose right in front of my face but not the eyes right in front of my face?
I was wondering what other people had to say. Do you have trouble focusing on stuff right in front of you including people's eyes? Or are real live human eyeballs just a thing of their own? And why don't we have spectrum people who have symptoms of "lack of eyebrow contact"?
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