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What am I doing wrong!!?

KOZMOZIS @realchrisharold

Wall Street Apprentice
Every other person - except me - and anybody other person who doesn’t have a product - has hundreds of thousands of followers… it makes zero sense at this point.

They shill their product: it sucks. It always sucks. It’s always a cheesy post thanking or blessing someone, or complaining or making a dad joke. Or some couch analysis on their favourite player; but when I have a book or a really cool product to push to the public - NOPE! Nobody cares! Family doesn’t check it out, family doesn’t invest with capital - nobody does. Not a single. Person. Supports me.
 
If you are serious you really need mental help, your doctor told you you suffered from schizophrenia, is there anything they can do for you? Did you acknowledge it?

I might be taking what you said to literally but idk

It’s pretty aggressive to say that to someone.

it doesn’t matter what I believe: is it hurting you in some way?

Chill
 
I mean not seeking real help is going to hurt you, i will be fine.

you need real help: a real path out of this conversation, since all you’re doing is attacking me. Am I going to save up for a plane ticket to go see her in NY? Maybe? Am I going to try and get back stage somehow? No! Holy cow! You need to: THINK.
 
Perhaps marrying a celebrity is a Salvation Fantasy? Like how many dream of winning the lottery. We believe one event will create a lifetime of happiness?

Not sure what celeb I'd want to marry. They all seem pretty high maintenance. Also the cameras following you around all the time? I don't think I'd be cut out for handling that.

Ed
 
Perhaps marrying a celebrity is a Salvation Fantasy? Like how many dream of winning the lottery. We believe one event will create a lifetime of happiness?

Not sure what celeb I'd want to marry. They all seem pretty high maintenance. Also the cameras following you around all the time? I don't think I'd be cut out for handling that.

Ed
I’ve thought about fame. It’s not fame that I want: I want enough money to buy the things I want like explicit things for example and a better computer - and more - computers and more art etc. and a QUIET HOME
 
Yeah, a detached home would be nice. A long drive way so there's no road noise. My dream computer would cost more than my car. I keep putting off building a new one due to how overpriced the GPU's currently are. Can't go from 25% of my overall build cost to 75%. That's just horrendous.

Ed
 
Yeah, a detached home would be nice. A long drive way so there's no road noise. My dream computer would cost more than my car. I keep putting off building a new one due to how overpriced the GPU's currently are. Can't go from 25% of my overall build cost to 75%. That's just horrendous.

Ed
I just want more and waaaaay better
 
Problem I have is that most modern games don't appeal as much as older games that I know well. So it feels hard to justify doing a big build that can run all the latest titles on ultra at 4k with ray tracing etc when I'd much rather play a game that needs a fraction of the PC power.

Ed
 
Every other person - except me - and anybody other person who doesn’t have a product - has hundreds of thousands of followers… it makes zero sense at this point.

They shill their product: it sucks. It always sucks. It’s always a cheesy post thanking or blessing someone, or complaining or making a dad joke. Or some couch analysis on their favourite player; but when I have a book or a really cool product to push to the public - NOPE! Nobody cares! Family doesn’t check it out, family doesn’t invest with capital - nobody does. Not a single. Person. Supports me.

Yep. I agree with you!
Lots of junk out there but thousands to hundred thousands of followers, or making tons of money.
Lots of almost perfect stuff and barely a sniff, and almost dirt poor.
When we have the product, but the public and others are into other less quality stuff, or other weird stuff

I cannot speak for you, but in our case, I am:

-Awful at social media
-Awful at marketing
-Too modest to want to talk much about/sell a great product
-Too honest to lie or embellish, like those others do
-Too proud to beg or shill
-Too shy to network
-Too selfless to put my needs first
-Too busy to be able to put forth sales efforts I hate
-Too ethical to pay for generated likes or followers
-Too anxious about crime, or losing my privacy
-Too unlucky to have much luck
-Too serious to want to entertain them

Any statement out there that great products sell themselves is hogwash. If a genius is indeed 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration, perhaps Edison or whoever made that quote left some of those other components out, and as the efforts have to be diverse or targeted too.

In my case, I rather right now have a product with only a few others who understand and appreciate it, than tons of others who just want to buy it or subscribe because they were either told to do it, everyone else was doing it, or because they are not smart enough to know the difference between a poor thing, neutral thing or great thing. But, the timing will come sooner than later where I will feel heard, regarding my/our efforts.

I saw your book summaries, and I know it intrigued me, and if if I was a publisher and avid reader I'd be really interested. I am going to be totally upfront here; I have read very popular books in my hyper-focuses of interest, written by medical doctors and supposed other experts, and, as objective as I was, and am, I wondered how they became best sellers. No clarity, insight or analysis was involved, with just common used facts thrown around as if it was a dartboard, with lots of boring filler scattered throughout.

You know why it makes sense that some of this stuff becomes best sellers? It's because the marketing and other mentioned things came into play, more than the quality of the product. Famous artists of the past, I'll use as a quick example. Is their art pieces passed down from generation to generation any better than the art of today? I would argue not necessarily. Luck or the right advertising was involved. But, once it became popular, for whatever reason, people think it's the best, and will not be objective for the rest.

Sometimes timing is everything, but often it's just about not giving up. Naysayers drive me just as I am self-driven myself. I may not do things the traditional way, but I have no doubt one day my dreams will become reality. If I won't play by their rules, I will create my own. I am not going to change who I am to be that success, but I will either hire others or go to the right places to make sure what we have to offer will help not just us, but many more. So, in my case, I am not going to let them see me sweat. I will quietly redirect some efforts and get help from others, now that the products are as great as can be.
 
Yep. I agree with you!
Lots of junk out there but thousands to hundred thousands of followers, or making tons of money.
Lots of almost perfect stuff and barely a sniff, and almost dirt poor.
When we have the product, but the public and others are into other less quality stuff, or other weird stuff

I cannot speak for you, but in our case, I am:

-Awful at social media
-Awful at marketing
-Too modest to want to talk much about/sell a great product
-Too honest to lie or embellish, like those others do
-Too proud to beg or shill
-Too shy to network
-Too selfless to put my needs first
-Too busy to be able to put forth sales efforts I hate
-Too ethical to pay for generated likes or followers
-Too anxious about crime, or losing my privacy
-Too unlucky to have much luck
-Too serious to want to entertain them

Any statement out there that great products sell themselves is hogwash. If a genius is indeed 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration, perhaps Edison or whoever made that quote left some of those other components out, and as the efforts have to be diverse or targeted too.

In my case, I rather right now have a product with only a few others who understand and appreciate it, than tons of others who just want to buy it or subscribe because they were either told to do it, everyone else was doing it, or because they are not smart enough to know the difference between a poor thing, neutral thing or great thing. But, the timing will come sooner than later where I will feel heard, regarding my/our efforts.

I saw your book summaries, and I know it intrigued me, and if if I was a publisher and avid reader I'd be really interested. I am going to be totally upfront here; I have read very popular books in my hyper-focuses of interest, written by medical doctors and supposed other experts, and, as objective as I was, and am, I wondered how they became best sellers. No clarity, insight or analysis was involved, with just common used facts thrown around as if it was a dartboard, with lots of boring filler scattered throughout.

You know why it makes sense that some of this stuff becomes best sellers? It's because the marketing and other mentioned things came into play, more than the quality of the product. Famous artists of the past, I'll use as a quick example. Is their art pieces passed down from generation to generation any better than the art of today? I would argue not necessarily. Luck or the right advertising was involved. But, once it became popular, for whatever reason, people think it's the best, and will not be objective for the rest.

Sometimes timing is everything, but often it's just about not giving up. Naysayers drive me just as I am self-driven myself. I may not do things the traditional way, but I have no doubt one day my dreams will become reality. If I won't play by their rules, I will create my own. I am not going to change who I am to be that success, but I will either hire others or go to the right places to make sure what we have to offer will help not just us, but many more. So, in my case, I am not going to let them see me sweat. I will quietly redirect some efforts and get help from others, now that the products are as great as can be.

Uh… I’m just really poor.
 
Someone once said to me you don't make money on niche products or great ideas,...you make money in broad markets. Most people when they see something different are immediately skeptical,...unless of course, it is a fantastic new take on a product they are already familiar with.

Having said that, obviously, some niche products and great ideas need time to grow. Cell phones, personal computers, solar power, electric cars, just a few examples. Regardless of what some people think of Elon Musk, for example, he had a vision of a future, and introduced a niche product, that even 5 years ago was considered a dream,....people had no idea of what was to come,...and now, you have governments putting into legislation all new vehicles will have to be electric by 2030, 2035, etc. and the legacy automakers are scrambling to make the switchover,...too little, too late, and will likely go out of business within the next 10 years. Broad markets. Vertical integration. Control the supply chain.

You can also make money on niche products if several of them are placed onto a web site. Automotive accessories being an example,...one product will rarely get any attention by itself,...but if placed into a group of other accessories, people are more likely to see and purchase it.
 
Not a single. Person. Supports me.
I think the hardest lesson in life for me was to learn to be my own advocate. Reading things on this site I think lacking self advocacy is a common issue for many of us. I think that any entrepeneur, you included, need to advocate for your product.

I especially had a hard time self advocating because I associated it with the attention whores I experienced growing up. These NTs were shameless and had no emotional room for anybody else, but seemed valued by others.
 
"Money makes money". What this means is that you have to invest in yourself. Hire a company to promote your product and hire another to set up and manage social media to promote your product. When you have an image or "brand" in place you are much more likely to attract the attention of investors.
And you have to stop thinking "nobody cares" and start believing "ok, maybe they aren't interested right now, but they will be!".
And each time someone turns you down, try to make them believe they will miss out. Try to make them think they are the smartest person for being on the cutting edge of a growing trend. Stroke their egos.

Who knows, get really good at this and maybe Taylor Swift will sing about you one day. (Doesn't she write heartbreak songs? Maybe you don't want her to sing about you after all!)
 
On what platform are you selling your products and through which social media outlets are you attempting to advertise? Have you heard of SEO? Link building? Keyword research? These are the foundations of organic traffic. It's often estimated that it takes 6 months to 1 year to start getting significant traffic, and that's only if you're doing it correctly. Do you have a website? Have you ever purchased ads?

It's possible to get thousands of followers in a day, but none of them will respond to you. You'd be surprised how many accounts have done this to make their numbers more impressive. To gain large numbers of followers legitimately takes many months, a year, and more, depending on how high you're trying to go.

If these are things you're not familiar with, I'd be happy to help you with all of them. This has been my special interest for 9 months now!
 

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