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What helps you sleep?

Nervous Rex

High-functioning autistic
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It seems like my biggest obstacle is lack of sleep. It's when I'm tired that I have trouble coping, focusing, regulating my emotions, etc. Trouble focusing at work leads to anxiety about my job, which leads to not being able to sleep, which leads to trouble focusing at work. I'm trying to break the cycle and get to sleep earlier, but I have difficulty going to sleep if I'm not utterly exhausted.

So, what helps you sleep?

Are there herbal remedies that make it easier to go to sleep? (I won't do pills - I had a horrible experience with Ambien)

How do you quiet your thoughts and emotions at night?

Now accepting all tips and tricks you might have to offer...
 
Ambient sound. In the summer it's my fan in the bedroom.

Otherwise I have ambient sounds built into my clock radio (Homedics) just inches away from my head when I sleep. Usually have it set to the sound of rainfall. A simple MP3 file that is looped.

Usually you can find such things at Bed, Bath & Beyond. There's one just off South Virginia Street just before it crosses Kietzke Lane.
 
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Often drink Camomile tea an hour or so before bedtime, and mix with Mint or other herbs/plants such as St. John's Wort and sometimes Willow bark. If it's hot weather I'll do a cold infusion in the fridge overnight, of a mixture of these herbs/plants. Also make tinctures from these plants and will put a few drops of the tincture in a glass of water at bedtime. Medication has never worked for me, so I began years ago, mixing things that worked well and using them.

Also do a kind of counting of sheep but not aloud. Use a four or five letter word, like dash, beginning with the 'd' I think of every word I know that begins with 'd', making a list in my mind. By the time I reach the 's' or 'h' I'm usually asleep. Find that if I do some ritualistic things, like brushing teeth, stretches, even humming a little, it helps me prepare to sleep. My husband listens to radio discussions on headphones in another language which he can ignore, and that seems to help him sleep.
 
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Never really been a poor sleeper, focus on a positive thought I guess. Also I leave my TV on all night, believe it or not that helps me sleep.
 
It seems like my biggest obstacle is lack of sleep. It's when I'm tired that I have trouble coping, focusing, regulating my emotions, etc. Trouble focusing at work leads to anxiety about my job, which leads to not being able to sleep, which leads to trouble focusing at work. I'm trying to break the cycle and get to sleep earlier, but I have difficulty going to sleep if I'm not utterly exhausted.

So, what helps you sleep?

Are there herbal remedies that make it easier to go to sleep? (I won't do pills - I had a horrible experience with Ambien)

How do you quiet your thoughts and emotions at night?

Now accepting all tips and tricks you might have to offer...
Darkness, the iPad not been connected to the Internet, thinking vengeful thoughts about what I would like to do to The inventors of the microphone which is in the iPad and mobile phones and also predictive text .
Been cool enough ,quiet ,calming perfume eucalyptus, tea tree oil, lavender not lavandin, musk derived from plants , feeling happy that brats are locked away .
Knowing i've fed the cats and hedgehogS.
Changing the brightness scale to nightshift and warmer end of the spectrum on my android phone and iPad .
 
I don't have a problem sleeping, on the contrary once I take my hearing aid out and my head hits the pillow I'm literally dead till the next morning, and some mornings I'm late getting up for the carer.
 
I sometimes take a couple pills of melatonin. You should be able to get it at a drug store. It's over the counter. Your body produces melatonin naturally.
 
Exercise - I have a lot of spare energy, so I need to be physically exhausted before I can relax enough to sleep.

Music - Something very slow and calming. I listen to a lot of classical music or songs deliberately slowed down, which sounds a bit odd but also slows my brain down. 'Libera - Ave Maria' slowed down 800% is really calming to me. It doesn't have to be music though. My cousin is really into ASMR videos of people pouring water into jugs, brushing material and other random noises. Some people find that relaxing.

Tea - I don't drink caffeine after midday, but I have a variety of fruit/herbal teas. Camomile is supposed to be good for inducing sleep.

Diet - Check if there are any specific foods that make insomnia worse for you. I don't drink alcohol, have cut sugar and most carbs out of my diet and eat a ton of protein and (natural) fats. My body and brain seems to like it.

Yoga/Meditation - I tend to do this in the mornings now, as the above work well enough for me. But for years I suffered from pretty severe insomnia and yoga seemed to help.

Home environment - Hard to do if you have kids or live with random people, but removing stressors at home make it far easier to deal with external ones at work and elsewhere. In the past I lived with either housemates or partners and my insomnia was far better or worse depending on my relationship with them.
 
Ive never had issues with staying asleep, per se, but, I have struggled a great deal with falling asleep, which contributes to the same symptoms mentioned in your original post.

I had been using L-Tyrosine, which was extremely effective for falling asleep, deep/restful sleep and vivid, positive dreams, despite the supplement's main use being for mental claritiy and stamina. It has the opposite effect on me, and I have come to learn, on others, as well. I thought I would stop and try to fall asleep on my own, but I was unsuccessful.

About a month, ago, I began utilizing a breathing technique, suggested by my therapist, and found it to be quite effective. I, more recently, read about the effectiveness of valerian root on sleep and anxiety symptoms, and Ive been drinking the tea for the past week. It is a combination of valerian, chamomile and peppermint. Indeed, it has helped me, profoundly, with daily anxiety, including social anxiety, surprisingly. I only have to drink it at night to obtain anti-anxiety effects throughout the following day. The drawback is that, the dreams it produces have been extremely intense. Too intense for my liking. I have been experimenting with the amount of time I allow it to steep, and last night I did not dream about anything outside of the normal scope of the types of dreams I generally have. I do like dreaming and generally, never have bad or insane dreams, so, if I am able to maintain this more desirable effect, I may continue to utilize the valerian root.

Otherwise, I will attempt to master the breathing technique, and if it doesn't suffice, long term, I will go back to utilizing L-tyrosine. I don't like anything building up in my system, which was my concern and reason for discontinuing L-Tyrosine. Although, perhaps that doesn't occur with this particular supplement, as I did not experience any symptoms as the result of discontinuing it.

edit: I, also, listen to music when falling asleep, and have done, for most of my life, which does help to relax me quite a bit, but, hasn't been as effective in the past several years.
 
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I have extreme insomnia at times because of PTSD and a genetic issue. 11 days was my record of zero sleep.

The best thing I did was camp inside. @Streetwise mentioned this. I shut off everything, including the electricity about 6pm. If it was bad, then I left the lights off all the time, just to get used to it. When the night fell, I went to bed. It makes you tired when you just never have the lights on. I had to do this for about 3 nights before it kicked in proper. Nothing else helped. I was downing herbs and melatonin and HTT5 and amino acids and GABA and Benadryl and droppers of whiskey because I can't drink, so just a few droppers. And CBD oil.

Nothing helped but the "indoor camping". I do it only in crisis now because it take a LOT of discipline to live like you are in 1700's.
 
It takes me hours to fall alseep right now, but I have some techniques that help.
Good pillow and bed, if you can afford it. I have a dog I've cuddled at night since I was 8 and that helps. The Relax Melodies app has good ambient noise and music if you like that. I turn that on and try to block all other sounds.
The indoor camping sounds good, not sure how that's work in a house with others though.
My main problem is racing thoughts. Not just anxious thoughts, but everything; plans, worries, the past, daydreaming, everything. If anyone knows how to help with that it'd be great.
 
I have a routine and I wind down towards the evening and avoid anything too stimulating - you won't find me on this forum after a certain time, for example.

Herbal tea works for me - chamomile, valerian or St John's Wort. I buy it ready made (Bad Heilbrunner), an infusion of various herbs. It's like taking a Xanax, it really works. Only problem with drinking tea at night is that you wake up in the night needing the toilet.

Mindfulness techniques - focusing on my breathing, or imagining a swinging pendulum and counting the swings.
 
It takes me hours to fall alseep right now, but I have some techniques that help.
Good pillow and bed, if you can afford it. I have a dog I've cuddled at night since I was 8 and that helps. The Relax Melodies app has good ambient noise and music if you like that. I turn that on and try to block all other sounds.
The indoor camping sounds good, not sure how that's work in a house with others though.
My main problem is racing thoughts. Not just anxious thoughts, but everything; plans, worries, the past, daydreaming, everything. If anyone knows how to help with that it'd be great.
Mindfulness !!!!!focus on something outside of your head, adult colouring book! colouring focuses your mind on something apart from your thoughts , a book ,I read a book but One you know will help you go to sleep .
Re-indoor camping make the room dark !!!!mindfulness will help you with the noises from other people !!!but make sure it's something you know will get your attention!!! I have the TV on on either an animal documentary or a craft channel downstairs,try to watch an animal documentary without advertisements !!!!so you have a constant noise level or music at the same noise level till you go to sleep.
I have my room is dark all day but that's because of panic disorder ,it comforts me ,if you don't have panic attacks all the time ,probably wont ,in fact it will probably cause depression, try to have one or two places that are dark so you can go and relax .
The reason it works is because your brain works on the light/ dark biological system ,you are stimulated by light to be awake and stimulated by dark to sleep.
 

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