Mr. Jones
Well-Known Member
I don?t know if this thread belongs in the forum about love and dating or this one?
Was thinking about this for much of the last week. A week ago I attended a brunch arranged online on a website called Meetup.com. The brunch was for anyone in the surrounding area between the ages of 20-29 looking to expand their social circle and meet new people. You can imagine that I was the only person at the brunch that was on the spectrum; it was an uncomfortable and somewhat negative experience for me.
Afterwards, I began to think about the likelihood of developing a loving relationship in the future. For several years I have been alone because I have been unable to find anyone that likes me. Most women will reject or ignore me on the spot or after our first meeting if it was initiated online.
My best friend who lives in the United States says that she believes I will develop such a relationship in the future, but what is the likelihood of that? What is the likelihood of any of us developing those relationships? Based on what I have read online, it looks dismal statistically. Sometimes I think that socializing and relationships are a lost cause for me.
What are your thoughts on the likelihood or statistics of those on the spectrum finding love and developing relationships? Do most of us live our lives alone?
Would like to read that Tony Atwood book on Aspergers; it might have information on this subject.
Was thinking about this for much of the last week. A week ago I attended a brunch arranged online on a website called Meetup.com. The brunch was for anyone in the surrounding area between the ages of 20-29 looking to expand their social circle and meet new people. You can imagine that I was the only person at the brunch that was on the spectrum; it was an uncomfortable and somewhat negative experience for me.
Afterwards, I began to think about the likelihood of developing a loving relationship in the future. For several years I have been alone because I have been unable to find anyone that likes me. Most women will reject or ignore me on the spot or after our first meeting if it was initiated online.
My best friend who lives in the United States says that she believes I will develop such a relationship in the future, but what is the likelihood of that? What is the likelihood of any of us developing those relationships? Based on what I have read online, it looks dismal statistically. Sometimes I think that socializing and relationships are a lost cause for me.
What are your thoughts on the likelihood or statistics of those on the spectrum finding love and developing relationships? Do most of us live our lives alone?
Would like to read that Tony Atwood book on Aspergers; it might have information on this subject.