Hello - I wish I had some good ideas for you- I’m trying to find my own niche in the job world, too. It seems like I don’t fit anything I try. Some of what you said sounded familiar to me—either missing details or paying too much attention to certain details.
I’ve mostly worked jobs that dealt directly with customers, like general office work, fast food service, restaurant, grocery store, and at a bank. I like people but it’s exhausting trying to act a certain way constantly.
One of my favorite jobs was when I was a temp at a technical college. I really liked the atmosphere and it made me happy to see all these people from all ages and backgrounds applying to further their education. It’s like they all shared the same hope and goal to do something to improve their lives - it just kind of seemed to give the place a positive vibe.
The work was kind of repetitive though which is something you mentioned wanting to avoid.
I currently work at a little reason as a hostess and busser. It’s an open restaurant so you’re right there with nature. It gets a bit crazy sometimes as restaurant life normally does but I’m actually happiest when I’m left alone to bus tables because I’m busy and I can zone kind of zone out while still moving around. Plus they are very flexible with the employees with scheduling which helps a lot when you have school age children.
What about IT work? I was thinking about going back to school and pursing IT because I like tinkering with computers and I’m good at it- not in a genius way or anything but I’m usually persistent enough to fiddle with an issue until I figure it out. Not sure if that’s enough to go for it. But that might be something that could get repetitive, too.
Another favorite job was many years ago I worked at a little chocolate shop. It was the best chocolate ever- a bit on the expensive side but worth it. Best smelling place ever—besides the coffee store nearby it (it was in a mall). Unfortunately I’d gained about 20 labs working there. What can I say- I had no willpower around all that chocolate. Haha!
Not sure if any of these ideas are any help but keep searching, you’ll find something that fits you - I’m rooting for you!