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Why don't Nursing Homes have lounges for libations and relaxation?

Magna

Magna

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Why don't Nursing Homes have lounge areas where residents can enjoy a cocktail or two in the evenings? Or in places where it's legal, a toke as well? Music familiar to residents playing in the background? Dimmer more relaxing lighting?

Yes, there might be some residents that can't or shouldn't partake due to potential issues with their meds, but that's not everyone.

Seems actually criminal, no?
 
I actually worked as bartending in a retirement home. We also had a grand piano, and we had entertainment scheduled weekly in the bar/lounge area. Which consisted of chairs being brought in as needed. PR events were staged there, and it took the overflow of holiday buffet clients and their families. l made frozen drinks, typical bar drinks including martinis, and l came up with holiday drinks to promote. Our dining room was pretty big, we usually had about 4 servers on that floor during meals. So you do find it in the more exclusive homes. The mini homes that go for about 7,000 a month in this facility usually consisted of one bedroom, one living room, small kitchen, sized way down. And you were allowed one pet. There was a small gym, a hairdresser and a game room on the second floor. There was a huge nurse's section parallel the dining room, where some residents would get their meds. And yes, l had to cut off one lady, who nobody wanted her to sit at their table due to her drinking. There was a doctor kicked out of the dining room due to his potty mouth. Very interesting dynamics.
 
^ Overall, that sounds much better than Nursing Homes in our area where there's nothing like that at all. Other than some arts and crafts projects, bingo and other such activities there are no activities that adults are otherwise free to choose to partake in.
 
Magna said:
Why don't Nursing Homes have lounge areas where residents can enjoy a cocktail or two in the evenings? Or in places where it's legal, a toke as well? Music familiar to residents playing in the background? Dimmer more relaxing lighting?
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It would add to the number of issues the staff have to police. Sad, but true.
 
The nursing homes I have been in (for work) seem to struggle to meet the most basic needs of the residents - lacking enough help for proper bathing, feeding, and toileting. While I don’t blame the staff directly, the sheer mismanagement of resources and the lack of basic safety and hygiene for residents is appalling. The nursing homes I have seen have much more dire things to improve before they start considering a nice place for drinks and a smoke.

Disclaimer: I have never been in a nursing home for affluent people.
 
Rodafina said:
The nursing homes I have been in (for work) seem to struggle to meet the most basic needs of the residents - lacking enough help for proper bathing, feeding, and toileting. While I don’t blame the staff directly, the sheer mismanagement of resources and the lack of basic safety and hygiene for residents is appalling. The nursing homes I have seen have much more dire things to improve before they start considering a nice place for drinks and a smoke.

Disclaimer: I have never been in a nursing home for affluent people.
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It really is a sad state of affairs all around.
 
Where I live, I've found the difference is in what type of institute you are looking at.
The Nursing Homes, as we call them, are a medical type of housing for those who are chronically ill and in need of daily help to do most anything.
They are usually two people to the room and are dependent on someone to bathe, help with eating and medical assistance such as tube feeding, medications and walking devices.

The type of housing we call Assisted Living or Independent Senior Living places usually do have a Happy Hour lounge for the residents. These people usually do not require the medical assistance that is needed in a nursing home setting.
They may need walkers, scooters, or even wheelchairs to go places and transportation is provided for them, but they aren't in need of daily nursing care.

The really affluent Assisted Living places can be around $10,000 per month. This includes nice dining and the lounge for Happy Hours and parties.
So, basically, it depends on the degree of help you need and if it is more of a medical unit as to the lounge provided.

Take a look at what money can buy for an Assisted Living Facility:

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The Nursing Homes are a truly sad situation though.
 
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