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Why so soon

Kayla55

Kayla55

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So why shouldn't we jump into sack too soon,
Well we play snooker together and have fun, we really learnt to go out together and have more to talk about meaning the relationship has more odds of surviving. Whilst it did take time is it worth investigating shared asd patterns of interest?
From her perspective was trust gained that deepened trust, due by fact that he wasn't so pushy about getting straight to the point.

Other than sex, is it fun to be a couple and what part of dating do you wish you could have?
 
It's fun, but deeply rewarding, to be in a couple. My ASD girlfriend (only waiting a bit on marriage as a practicality) is a woman for the ages. A survivor, mentor, role model, and companion.
 
There are many asexual couple out there who benefit from being a couple, whilst not engaging in sex. Two people can kiss, hug, touch and so on without having sex.

Also, spending time together and socializing together can be fun as a couple.
 
blitzkrieg said:
There are many asexual couple out there who benefit from being a couple, whilst not engaging in sex. Two people can kiss, hug, touch and so on without having sex.

Also, spending time together and socializing together can be fun as a couple.
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On the other hand...... I am half of an asexual couple. ten years ago, she hit menopause, and said no more sex. We do not kiss, hug, touch, and so on, except when she demands I scratch her back or massage her arm or foot. We do not socialize or have fun as a couple. What I get is lots of verbal abuse, insults, and complaints. No, I can't date, I have previously written why on here several times. And no, I can't leave her. If I did, then I would be completely alone, and that leads to a drastic and far too permanent solution.
 
Shamar said:
On the other hand...... I am half of an asexual couple. ten years ago, she hit menopause, and said no more sex. We do not kiss, hug, touch, and so on, except when she demands I scratch her back or massage her arm or foot. We do not socialize or have fun as a couple. What I get is lots of verbal abuse, insults, and complaints. No, I can't date, I have previously written why on here several times. And no, I can't leave her. If I did, then I would be completely alone, and that leads to a drastic and far too permanent solution.
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If things are as bad as you imply with this post, in regards to your relationship with your partner... why are you still with them? Even if you didn't date other people after a break up, you could always remain single.
 
I have written about this before. I can't stand being alone, I start getting suicidal. In essence, what I am going through now is less painful than being alone. I cannot meet other people on my own (unless they walk up to me and start a conversation). I cannot meet through friends, because I have none. I am anthrophobic, which means I cannot go to places where there are lots of people or crowds.

I have considered leaving many times, and always decide against it. Yes, it is unpleasant, but the alternatives are worse.
 
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