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Wow what a summer.

Katrina Wolf

41 Asperger's
So in spring my little aspie self, move to Missouri with my wife and my adopted mother. My adoptive mother attacked my wife and was put into the psych ward. She then turned and claimed financial exploitation. They did six investigations, turns out my mom's been taking my money this whole time and she actually owes my wife and I a considerable amount. Her conservator will never pay, and we don't have the resources to sue. So then I go up and get the rest of our stuff.
I come home to my wife being divorce divorce divorce divorce. We invite an old friend down I walked out of the bedroom find her having sex with them on the couch. So I'm in therapy and counseling and doing what's right.

Yes I got a bit snarky at times and a bit passive-aggressive. Only natural when your stability is being rocked to the core. The doctors noticed the timing of everything. I have not yet received my official ASD diagnosis though so they opened a financial exploitation investigation against my wife. They were convinced based on the financial records that there was financial exploitation going on. Yes she was protected from my mother's investigation by being my wife. Marital assets and so forth. Since it was mostly my disability check paying for everything. She spent her own money on herself.

She starts being super nice to me for a little bit and forgets there's an investigation. I had to do eight days in the county jail over a DUI from 2 years ago. Right before I turned myself in I bought her a locket representing Hera the goddess of faithfulness in marriage.she asked for it for her birthday so she could remain faithful to me. I come home from jail and she's now getting married to a guy she met less than five weeks ago. Then tonight I find out she's moving out leaving me with a ton of credit card debt a mortgage and no ability to pay for it myself.

my therapist had been asking to meet her because we were pretty convinced that we were in a narcissistic codependent relationship and I'm the codependent. It makes sense especially being an aspie. Lots of feeling later I finally take her to meet the therapist. When my wife left the room to go smoke a cigarette the meeting was almost over and my therapist talk to me bluntly.she said yes this is a case of emotional abuse there is most definitely a narcissistic codependent relationship and how cold she is,is alarming.

Now I recently got approved for services from the regional center. Not two hours after I left the therapy appointment I get a phone call from a new community service specialist.this one's not a community service specialist though it's a developmental service specialist.

She is going to be coming by my house twice a week to monitor everything to help clean to take me where I go excetera.
the investigators on the financial exploitation case or waiting for the diagnosis to become official so that I'm now a protected person because before it was not a crime in Missouri, now it is and since Jessica was part of the approval process she cannot claim she didn't know I had Asperger's. Karma is coming.

My best friend told me when they start sending people to your house twice a week they're getting ready to intervene. I have at least learned a lot about myself this summer as I've been bluntly honest, I took my lumps, and I always pursued what was right and if I didn't know what was right I didn't do anything at all.
So what do you all think.
 
I think that in future, you should always inspect your accounts religiously and regularly.

Yeah, it sounds like the summer from hell.

Maybe don't hook up with anyone else right away?
 
What a story! What a summer you have had.

I’ve heard it said, “Smooth seas never made a good sailor.” I wish the best for your future. Look to it with optimism.

You have many of listening ears here at Autismforums.com.
 
OMG! You did amazingly well from the sound of it. I would have said your wife was severely bipolar/manic, rather than narcissistic , which doesnt exclude her being abusive too. Never heard the term "financial exploitation " as a thing which could prompt an investigation
But I will keep it in mind in terms of my own mother and her "friend" who had taken over both financial and medical power of attorney -taken them away from me, that is- and has several of my relatives convinced her motives are saintly. Life!! Go figure!!
 
Wow. It's been an awful summer for you and I do hope for the best outcome on your behalf. And I hope the investigations result in triumph.
 

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