31 and never dated

[John2020]

Im the worst person in the world...just about every autistic person can learn from me and can find answers on what makes them that they are bad in Realationships..i was more giving a response to the original poster to see if he got any Characteristics like mine.

 

[Rasputin]

I'm 31 years old and I never dated. I don't socialize with women that much and I never asked any woman out. I try to take care of myself physically. What could be the problem? For the neurotypical here and aspie women, what could be holding me back?

Recalling my past experiences I was 29 before I had any success dating. In college I could not even talk to a girl socially, though I was very well known as a math whiz and also as a top student in chemistry and physics. I was just socially inept and could not overcome the anxiety.

What you need to do is reflect on yourself critically, and start methodically addressing your social issues, clothes, haircut, appearance, just making an effort to make friends, without regard for physical attraction. With me, I connect with people who are highly intelligent. If they are also physically attractive, overcome the anxiety and let them know.

It's not hopeless. I've been married going on 28 years now.