Hello all,
I was hoping for some help understanding my situation. I am NT and my ex girlfriend is an Aspie. We were in a relationship for about 3 months and honestly it was the most magical thing, we got on like a house on fire. Met each other’s families, spent so much time together and just really clicked. We were talking about future vacations, how she wants to spend years with me and how she wanted a long term future which I was all for.
Then it kinda seemed out of nowhere she got overwhelmed and asked for space, which took me by shock and I panicked I was losing her. We didn’t see each other as much but I still tried to text her just as much as before, which in hindsight probably wasn’t a good move.
She then broke up over a month ago, saying she felt nothing, wanted space and needed to work on herself. And that it was nothing to do with me, which I can’t help but feel like that wasn’t true.
I’m just having a hard time going from feeling like I had met a girl that wanted me around for a long time to a sudden breakup. I desperately want her back but I’m trying to respect the fact she wants space.
So I guess what I’m asking is should I try and get her back? Will she ever start to regret breakups or miss their exes? How much space should I give her if not?
I know I can be the person for her if we give it another shot, I just feel like this breakup was because of my mistakes
I was hoping for some help understanding my situation. I am NT and my ex girlfriend is an Aspie. We were in a relationship for about 3 months and honestly it was the most magical thing, we got on like a house on fire. Met each other’s families, spent so much time together and just really clicked. We were talking about future vacations, how she wants to spend years with me and how she wanted a long term future which I was all for.
Then it kinda seemed out of nowhere she got overwhelmed and asked for space, which took me by shock and I panicked I was losing her. We didn’t see each other as much but I still tried to text her just as much as before, which in hindsight probably wasn’t a good move.
She then broke up over a month ago, saying she felt nothing, wanted space and needed to work on herself. And that it was nothing to do with me, which I can’t help but feel like that wasn’t true.
I’m just having a hard time going from feeling like I had met a girl that wanted me around for a long time to a sudden breakup. I desperately want her back but I’m trying to respect the fact she wants space.
So I guess what I’m asking is should I try and get her back? Will she ever start to regret breakups or miss their exes? How much space should I give her if not?
I know I can be the person for her if we give it another shot, I just feel like this breakup was because of my mistakes
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