@Loren , I did not take your post as hostile, maybe as exclusive. As though you (more likely just the OP) wanted to only continue the conversation with those already in the know in an attempt to raise the bar in the standard of conversation. That would be fair enough, I have occasionally participated in threads where people have responded willy-nilly and I have thought the threads the poorer for it.
I have sometimes thought that
@tree posted definitions to make a point, but I now believe that she does this in a strict moderator capacity, and is not trying to participate in the conversation as such. Six posts in a row now are not really on topic, but it's hard to say that we're derailing the thread. The thread has no rails, tree has made the only direct attempt to correct this. It seems that the OP does not intend that the standard definition of paranoid is to be used, yet has failed to provide an alternative.
EDIT: I mean paranoid as a label that gets used today especially in digital space, i expected people to understand that as i do and put it in quote marks for that reason. It is in the category where i put it for a reason
I am anticipating that for your same reason you really ought to provide the definition yourself. If it's a definition that would be known and understood in the context of a computer lab, you might consider that you're not in a computer lab. I don't mean to belittle tree's contribution to the thread, but this seems like rudimentary communication skills to me. When somebody asks for clarification of your position, failure to provide it shows an unwillingness to participate further, with that person at least. I have not previously assumed that since you haven't explicitly said so and are young. You know plenty of things that millions of others don't, you cannot assume that everyone, or even most people, know something just because you do.
I guess that Loren may be competent to provide an appropriate definition. I might also guess that Loren is hesitant to do this because it may be slightly rude, as the OP it is your place to determine what the conversation should be about. Providing a definition is part of this.