I've asked people for help with clothes shopping in the past, as I suspected this might be a significant factor to fitting in and I'm usually helpfully advised to 'find my own style' but, as style doesn't make sense to me, I ended up sticking with what I already had - black jeans and t-shirts several sizes too big for me.
Finally, four years ago, someone actually took me to some clothes shops, showed me the concept of sizes and helped me pick some matching outfits. They also pointed out how faded black clothes get after just a few months, let alone the years I was wearing stuff for (tip: wash jeans inside out and they keep their color longer!)
Since then I just kept replacing each worn article of clothing with the nearest thing I could find.
Now, I seem to have managed to develop a bit of social life on occasion, this last year or so and have discovered the incentive to observe the way others dress, what tops they wear with bottoms and foot wear.. and I've noticed similarities, patterns.. I'm not grasping fashion yet (I doubt I ever will as it changes too quickly and arbitrarily), but I'm now able to match more tops with bottoms and realise when I like an article of clothing and what it might match with.. so there's hope
If anyone is worried about what to wear and if it looks good or not just take notice of the world around you. If you see something that you think looks nice like a sunset or some cool architecture just whatever catches your eye as appealing, then make a mental note of the colours, textures things that you like about it try on your next clothes shopping trip to keep those images in mind. Whatever ya normally get that feels comfy etc look for that with qualities which remind you of the cool aesthetic stuff you have kept track of.
You should look great afterwards.
This is interesting, I know people get their inspiration from somewhere - I've seen that you can put together seasonal colors too, I've mostly been observing what women wear here as they seem to have access to a much greater and more interesting range of styles and colors than men.
Bit puzzled as to how to dress like a building though, but keeping my eyes open