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Lucky, I wish I had that option. But no, the stupid school decided I had to get diagnosed as a small child or else.One of the reasons I'm not interested in getting diagnosed.
I am guessing I might be a level 2 aspie, though I have been totally independent all my life and, through hard work, become financially independent.The severity levels should remain across the spectrum. It doesn't always necessarily mean how clever you are or how much support you need, it's more about self-care skills and how well you can communicate in different circumstances.
You want quirky?Level 3 autism is more likely to involve non-verbal people. Some level 2 autistic people can be non-verbal depending on their circumstances. Level 1 is more complex than the other two levels, and usually a lot of people with that appear more quirky than anything else.
I have never met a "normal" person in my life.I'm a quirky woman, with noticeable anxiety and ADHD, but very complex and hidden Asperger's (I don't hide the Asperger's on purpose, as in masking, as whether I mask or not I'm still not obvious ASD).
Generally obvious ASD, even level 1, can involve things like lacking eye contact, avoiding too much social contact in the workplace, visibly stimming when stressed, shutting down when anxious, talking about one special subject, being intelligent, etc.
I'm opposite to that. Even without masking I can hold a conversation, naturally want to interact with others, make normal eye contact, not stimming (even though I get very highly anxious and stressed I still don't feel the need to flap my hands or rock), I can communicate just as easily when stressed or anxious than when not stressed or anxious, I don't have special interests that I talk nonstop about, and I lack intelligence, as in I'm not very knowledgeable. I like not being knowledgeable though, so please don't try to make me feel better by telling me I am intelligent and stuff, because I'd rather you just at least say I'm average.
Level 2 Aspies can be independent.I am guessing I might be a level 2 aspie, though I have been totally independent all my life and, through hard work, become financially independent.
Abuse can affect even NTs. I was never abused (offline) as such, just socially rejected by my peers, which I think it's what has caused me to have social anxiety, despite being a sociable person.Does that make me a level 1 autistic?
I don't really know, but my cognitive abilities seem to be at the upper range, even if my practicality in real life can be hit and miss.
My history of being psychologically ritually abused may have had a lot to do with that.
Destroying a person's ontological security at 5 years of age will change anyone's life trajectory completely.
I know that nobody's perfect but I still wish I were NT with no mental health issues or anything.You want quirky?
It is standing right in front of you.
I have never met a "normal" person in my life.
I do have good social intelligence, yes. But I'm still socially awkward. My social intelligence is good cognitively, but my social behaviours can be off-putting when it closes to making friends, moreso with most women.Firstly, intelligence comes in various forms.
You are above average in social understanding in RL, compared to many/most of us.
You have mentioned how you have no problems empathising with ppl.
Why can't you accept that?![]()
I'm hyper-ADHD too, which contributes more to my social awkwardness in making friends.If I wasn't hyper-ADHD, I would be much, much better at social interactions.
To me, ADHD has been a much bigger problem in my life than being on the spectrum.
But then, being gang-stalked for most of my life did make things a lot more complicated.
Yes, I never realised how badly I was affected by ADHD either. I always thought all of my behaviours and ways were just Asperger's, but when I started looking up about ADHD in my 20s I realised it really made sense. I know everything in the world seems to be a symptom of autism but I think certain behaviours such as hyperactivity, excessive expression of feelings, difficulty focusing even on interests, taking longer than others to learn anything, hating rules and being told what to do, being bored easily with routines and mundane repetitiveness, and many more symptoms like that all at once, are more likely to mean ADHD than common autism symptoms.It is rather odd, now that I look back, that I didn't realise how badly I was affected by ADHD.
Remember fairly recently, how I described myself as ADD?
Someone, on this website, had to point out that I was really ADHD.
<wave at "someone">
Having Asperger's shoved down my throat since the age of 8 had made me see everything I do through the Asperger's lens, without considering other possible conditions I could have. Anxiety and ADHD are more relevant to me than autism - which is why I prefer Asperger's.Having lived all my life with hyper-ADHD, I just thought it was "normal" and didn't go into any meaningful research into it, until recently.
Better late than never, I guess. <shrug>![]()
The term "Asperger's" is no longer used because it has been reclassified as part of the broader Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), meaning there is no longer a separate diagnosis for Asperger's syndrome due to the overlapping symptoms with other forms of autism;
It still should have its own name. I mean, most conditions overlap with autism.
Perhaps we need to call ourselves "High Functioning Autistics", instead, but I have read that some ppl think this is a different "animal".It still should have its own name. I mean, most conditions overlap with autism.
I too had other concerns in my life, that overshadowed being on the spectrum.I Had to deal with the effects of transverse myelitis when I Was ten years old this effected me more then being on the spectrum as the other effect were in my face walking. easily tiring. training myself not piss myself. If I had known about the other issues, I Would not have developed the strength to over come what I did ignorance is strength.
Now with the stroke it was easy to learn to walk again, I refused to use a wheel chair in the hospital walker only.
I am genuinely surprised I have lasted this long.I'm retired now, walking is difficult, had stroke 10 days after my 65th birth day. Way life works not complaining.
based on my statistics have looks like eight more years left, maybe more. Last thing I concern myself with now is being on the spectrum, just like to help others, I did it they can also maybe with a bit of advice. Been there done that matters.
I'm aiming for 126.You might like this watch out for sigma's had stroke on one currently on one just probabilities.