Being dragged into conversations you don't want any part in

[SusanLR]

When people are nasty about something I am usually able to give a quick verbal Shock-Jock
zinger back.
I think they are hoping to shock you so shock them.
Putting myself in that situation had she asked that I didn't like her, I would probably have answered
" Nope, should I ?"
And the losing the virginity contest I would have probably said, "Good for you. What's the prize?"
But, I liked the answer about getting the German Shepard over here to help.

 

[OlLiE]

the socially acceptable answer would have been: 'it sucks to be you'

 

[Bella Pines]

Accept her.

As mentioned above people do things to get attention, or they care if people like them or not. It's more pronounced in kids and they will often just come out and say it, but you will see it your whole life. Adults do the same thing but much more subtle, they will say something mildly offensive just to get a reaction or response.

The sooner you accept that not everyone works logically and appreciate the various, colourful personalities that there are in the world, the less confused you will be. I was confused up until about 35 when I had the eureka moment. Up until that point I just thought people would one day way up and all nice and black and white and aspie. So when someone is looking for reassurance, or attention, then you either be kind and give it to them or politely nod and turn away.

 

[Horsegirl]

I just read all of these responses, they are hilarious! Well most of them. And good ideas too. This girl does tend to do stuff like that, I think she knows I can't really figure out hidden meanings and uses it against me.
Like yesterday, I was running on the track at lunch and the same girl came up and said,
"Hey, do you like math?"
I wasn't sure how I should respond, so I just said no which is true, math is the worst.
Apparently that was the wrong answer. She came dashing up behind me and said "Well that's good because it should get [deleted] right in the [deleted]."
I asked her about it later, because really it was embarrassing and I was kinda ticked off. And she just said
"Only hot [deleted] understand."
Whatever that's supposed to mean, I'm assuming she's not referring to overheated female dogs.
And in response to what somebody on this thread asked about me volunteering at an oldfolks home, I don't volunteer at one, but I visit one all the time because my grandma lives there and I am very close to her. I quite enjoy her company.

 

[Progster]

I just read all of these responses, they are hilarious! Well most of them. And good ideas too. This girl does tend to do stuff like that, I think she knows I can't really figure out hidden meanings and uses it against me.
Like yesterday, I was running on the track at lunch and the same girl came up and said,
"Hey, do you like math?"
I wasn't sure how I should respond, so I just said no which is true, math is the worst.
Apparently that was the wrong answer. She came dashing up behind me and said "Well that's good because it should get f****d right in the a*s."
I asked her about it later, because really it was embarrassing and I was kinda ticked off. And she just said
"Only hot b*****s understand."
Whatever that's supposed to mean, I'm assuming she's not referring to overheated female dogs.
And in response to what somebody on this thread asked about me volunteering at an oldfolks home, I don't volunteer at one, but I visit one all the time because my grandma lives there and I am very close to her. I quite enjoy her company.

Nasty bit of work that girl, with a huge attitude problem (perhaps hiding an equally big inferiority complex). There are no 'right' answers with people like that. Unfortunately, schools are full of them. I would avoid her as far as possible, she's trouble.

 

[Graphin]

Better thing would be to avoid school, but who doesn't want it

 

[SunnyDay16]

I just read all of these responses, they are hilarious! Well most of them. And good ideas too. This girl does tend to do stuff like that, I think she knows I can't really figure out hidden meanings and uses it against me.
Like yesterday, I was running on the track at lunch and the same girl came up and said,
"Hey, do you like math?"
I wasn't sure how I should respond, so I just said no which is true, math is the worst.
Apparently that was the wrong answer. She came dashing up behind me and said "Well that's good because it should get [deleted] right in the [deleted]."
I asked her about it later, because really it was embarrassing and I was kinda ticked off. And she just said
"Only hot [deleted] understand."
Whatever that's supposed to mean, I'm assuming she's not referring to overheated female dogs.
And in response to what somebody on this thread asked about me volunteering at an oldfolks home, I don't volunteer at one, but I visit one all the time because my grandma lives there and I am very close to her. I quite enjoy her company.

She sounds pretty creepy.