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Can You Tell Me What This Means?

Ragnahawk said:
Side note. It is possible he has selected the social "script" as a usual thing to say in a relationship. I think his social camoflague isn't active and he could be using words he would normally think to himself. (Rambling I know. This is just me thinking.)
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Now that could be- I mean not filtering his words but I now think he meant he cares.
 
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LucyPurrs said:
My friend (who's INTJ/possible aspie) & I were chatting the other day.

During a conversation about our relationship he said "I'd totally 100% share my food with you."

What do you think that means? (Aside from the fact he wouldn't let me starve to death :))
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Exactly what he said, no hidden meanings.
 
LucyPurrs said:
My friend (who's INTJ/possible aspie) & I were chatting the other day.

During a conversation about our relationship he said "I'd totally 100% share my food with you."

What do you think that means? (Aside from the fact he wouldn't let me starve to death :))
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He means that he trusts you. 100%
 
I don't share food with everyone, only those I feel close to. Maybe that's what he's getting at?
 
Well, I've found reviewing all these answers very interesting in the scope of what they cover. I posed the question because I don't like making assumptions about what my friend is saying but of course I did have some ideas about what it meant. So thank you all for your input. It's been helpful in understanding where he was coming from.
 
However thread his does inspire me to lobby for a nose icon.

I mean, look at all these faces. No noses! :eek:
 
Sharing is not something to which we are accustomed. When my wife and I met, she asked if I wanted to split a dessert with her on our first date. I gave her an entire speech about how I like to have a whole dessert for myself, not share it with anyone, and that I'm paying and it would be fine if I bought her a dessert as well and she only ate half. She still brings that speech up to friends and family, looking back on it with humor.

Saying that he would share with you shows that he has really deep feelings for you.
 
WeirdoGuy said:
Sharing is not something to which we are accustomed. When my wife and I met, she asked if I wanted to split a dessert with her on our first date. I gave her an entire speech about how I like to have a whole dessert for myself, not share it with anyone, and that I'm paying and it would be fine if I bought her a dessert as well and she only ate half. She still brings that speech up to friends and family, looking back on it with humor.

Saying that he would share with you shows that he has really deep feelings for you.
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Well, thank you for this. I think that's actually the case, especially as I then said, "LOL nice to know I'll never starve with you" and he replied "If we're going to starve, we'll starve together."
 
OkRad said:
...Someone one told me they would not throw me out of bed for eating crackers. I had NO IDEA what that meant! It meant he would sleep with me, but I would not be his ideal...
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That is so not what that means!

It means that he would sleep with you even if you left crumbs all over the bed. It is a big compliment....assuming you like him!
 
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