Hi, yeah, to some extent you are right. I am sorry that my perspectives are so limited. But the bad news is that in my country (I'm from China), most people feel shame to tell others that they are autistic, and more seriously, some of them do not think they are on the spectrum. All of these only bcoz once you are diagnosed with ASD or other similar status, you will receive extremely bad effects due to the social stereotype. So, yeah, in fact, I "cannot" associate with people on the spectrum, typically in China. It's hard.
I am glad that you are so friendly and can tell me that "most autistic people have problems with motor control" is a stereotype (I guess this is what you mean). So, I'm curious if your skills of motor control are trained or just like you are born with that?