A lot of kids can be so cruel to each other, particularly if that kid just happens to be different. When I was in my expanded Lion king obsession, I had a particularly difficult time at 12 because I often had some of the *insert choice word to describe them as* come up to me and ask me if I would marry this character, would press it and would either press until I said a character to get them to go away *big mistake * or they’d fill in the blank and then the rumors were spread and I was mobbed even more for it and then it turned into vandalism of my key ring and supplies (like taking out the foam detail from my lion king key ring I got when I saw the broadway show, going through my desk and breaking pencils, cutting the mane of my lion pencil case ). My teacher did nothing, seemed to think it was acceptable and it gave them more support to do more. Ended up when they asked if they could play a game which I stupidly said yes to but it wasn’t a game. They threw stones And hit me with sticks for fun, and it never ended because in class I would find pieces of chewing gum or sellotape on my back, and they’d ask me about boys and because I couldn’t really answer, they’d press more. Although that one is not a surprise...But it gave them ammunition to use against me.. i Also had comments about my weight (and I wasn’t even fat ), my clothes, my hair, how I talk, how I walked, my lack of makeup, so I decided that I would do what they wanted, after all if most of the class was behaving that way, they’re right. I ended up cutting my hair which had to be fixed by a hair dresser and developed an eating disorder. And stopped talking. Got different clothes too. It still wasn’t enough.. I really hated that school. And a lot of the people in it. I certainly didn’t help myself out with going on about the lion king but the escalation should never have happened.
So, I understand that kids can be cruel. But it’s the fault of those in charge who are supposed to safe guard the children in their care who failed to take action when it extended from just “teasing” to more serious stuff. I’m so sorry that you had all that happen to you And that the adults around you allowed it to happen. I get why you're reluctant to share your interests. I don’t give as much detail anymore or talk as much about mine. And whilst I do like the lion king, i only like it as a movie and my interest in it has mostly dimmed, although I’m pretty sure that’s also due to age and having more interests that are more mainstream acceptable. Or at least, good enough to embrace it as a nerd, thanks to the nerd cultur.
Even after all these years, I’m still pretty amazed at how stupid it was.