Not that this is an issue in my life now, but I've been wondering if the experience of being on the spectrum is an extra element that helps form deeper bonds with a mate, or not. I know it depends on the people but, all things being equal.. is it an advantage?
I know that I'm very careful in the communication process. I think NT find me too intense at times. I ask for clarification all the time to be SURE I understand the other person.. I need clarity in a relationship. It is one of the primary reasons past relationships have failed. So I wonder if I found a compatible lady who was also on the spectrum, would our shared experiences, and ability to accommodate each other's neurodiversity , be a plus?
I know that I'm very careful in the communication process. I think NT find me too intense at times. I ask for clarification all the time to be SURE I understand the other person.. I need clarity in a relationship. It is one of the primary reasons past relationships have failed. So I wonder if I found a compatible lady who was also on the spectrum, would our shared experiences, and ability to accommodate each other's neurodiversity , be a plus?
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