So after world war 3 with the wife, im still offering up apologies. But deeper thought on the matter has me understanding a little better. She makes a point of difference, into a storm in a teacup, because she thinks, ill fight her point, in the same manner I have in past. Logic goes out the window, when she has reached this state, and the only way to bring a situation like this back in control, is through a submissive approach. For a woman who knows as much as Aspergers, as she does, she doesnt hide her contempt for what I am that well. Her constant reference to what she thinks is old behaviours, leaves me frustrated and defeated. I know im not the same man I was 3 years ago, but my hisory will be left to judge my guilt or innocence. Anything other than an apology, is deemed as the old me, leaving a difference of opinion a pipe dream. For every win I allow her to rack up, in the interests of taking one for the team, it weakens my attempts of having an opinion, next time round. To have someone know you, as intimately as she does, and not, is the stark contrast, that has me unable to find any common ground, in these issues. Although I hate apologizing for no reason, I fear that in this particular case, my history dictates this outcome
