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Do you care about makeup?

DaisyRose

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I only like to wear makeup for special occasions. I don’t like to wear it everyday because I’m to lazy to apply it to my face. I would rather look at makeup on other people. I find it fascinating to see what peoples styles are. Here’s a photo I found in the archives of myself wearing makeup.

I was a sophomore in high school and I had to do dance as physical education. I had to attend dance concerts after school and I would have to wear makeup. I always like to go natural and not cake it on my face. In the photo, my mom did my makeup for the concert.

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I'm female and I don't wear makeup. It's just not 'me'. I had a very brief period as a teen where I experimented and bought some, but it never worked for me. It felt kind of itchy and I was always rubbing my face and eyes, so it always came off. I then thought, what's the point, anyway? Just because other people are doing something, doesn't mean that I also have to do it.
 
I'm a guy so it isn't expected of me, but I remember disliking face paint as a child, and any sort of costume requiring something on me besides clothing. I don't like the sensation of something sticky and wet on me, especially my face. I took part in a drag show of sorts as a kid (more like game). I found it fun to dress in different clothes, walking in high heels and doing poses, but refused any makeup.
 
I was never attracted to women that wear a lot of makeup. To me they look less human and it's somehow off putting, like a clown face. I also can't stand the smell if they start keeping makeup at my place, it stinks.

It was amusing living in the tropics and seeing tourists from colder climates trying to wear makeup like they normally would. Because of the heat and sweat it would start to run within a half hour or so. :)
 
@DaisyRose you look very pretty in that photo.
Not overly made up. But I understand how you feel.
I never liked wearing makeup either, even though I did it to make money.
No, I wasn't a hooker. A model. And they really over did it for photography,
tv and runways.
Otherwise, I didn't wear it when I was young.
I didn't wear or need to wear a bra either. Freedom!

Fast forward 50 years and now I put some on my cheeks because of spider veins.
If I ever find the time, I'll have those removed with laser treatment.
Also, I weigh a lot more now than in my teens and usually find I need a bra.
I can't find one that is comfortable.
Skinny tube tops worked well, but they are out of style now and can't find those either. :(
 
I don’t wear it, but I do find it interesting. Curious may be a better word. I find makeup to be curious, perhaps a bit confusing.

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The Poisonous Beauty Advice Columns of Victorian England​

BY NATALIE ZARRELLI DECEMBER 17, 2015

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A woman applies lipstick in Joseph Caraud’s La Toilette, 1858. (Photo: Public Domain/The Athenaeum)
GLASS AND TIN BOTTLES HIDE snug in a case, waiting for a woman’s daily ritual. She reaches for a bottle of ammonia and washes it over her face, careful to replace the delicate glass stopper. Next, she dips her fingertips into the creams and powders of her toilet table, gravitating toward a bright white paint, filled with lead, which she delicately paints over her features. It’s important to avoid smiling; the paint will set, and any emotion will make it unattractively crack.

In Victorian England, these were some of the ways women began their daily beauty routines. Unfortunately, cosmetics of the era were plagued by caustic chemicals that could also cause bodily addiction. And, similar to today, the advice on how, if, and when to use these treatments came from the era’s most popular beauty columns.

One such column, from Harper’s Bazaar, was called “The Ugly Girl Papers: Or, Hints for the Toilet.” It was written by a Mrs. S.D. Powers, a beauty expert of the time, and became so popular that it was re-published in 1874 as an anthology. The “Ugly Girl Papers” has the tone of a wise aunt with endless advice on how to solve your beauty woes.

In one chapter Powers asks, “Is there such a being as a hopelessly homely woman?” It is a rhetorical question, and readers of the time would have known the author’s firm belief that one could go from average to “charming” with just a few dress and makeup adjustments. Powers prized subtlety in makeup, though, and always included careful reminders to be sparse with powder and rouge.

According to Powers, women’s beauty was an elaborate, skilled, and semi-secret performance. “Everybody knows they are inventions, and accepts them as such, like paste brilliants at a theatre,” she wrote.

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A woman queries the durability of cosmetics at a pharmacy. (Photo: Wellcome Images, London)

Victorian beauty ideals were unsurprisingly obsessed with pallor: upper class white women chased even whiter skin, a symbol that their privilege never left them working in the sun. “It was all about how to make your skin more translucent,” says Alexis Karl, a perfumer and lecturer who has researched Victorian cosmetics extensively.

There were two dominant makeup styles in the 1800s: “natural” and “painted.” The ideals of “natural” skin care conjured images of the “English Rose”; a wholesomely beautiful woman with good morals, but Karl notes “it was understood that there was a lot of artifice going on.” The “painted” beauty regime was seen as a bit risqué; these women were not hiding their artifice nor their desire to be beautiful.

Similar to the “no-makeup makeup” trend that exists today, the natural look was often achieved through unnatural preparations, many of them homemade. Modern beauty practices belie the roots of current ideals: a chemical called Taraxacum is suggested as a sort of 1800s chemical peel by Powers, who says “the compress acts like a mild but imperceptible blister, and leaves a new skin, soft as an infant’s.”

To keep the face fresh, she advises coating the face with opium overnight, followed by a brisk wash of ammonia in the morning. For the woman with sparse eyebrows and eyelashes, mercury was often recommended as a nightly eye treatment, eradicating the need to use heavy makeup. “The look of the consumptive was very desirable: the woman with the watery eyes and pale skin, which of course was from the cadaver in the throes of death,” says Karl.

To get this near-death look, women would squeeze a few drops citrus juice or perfume into their eyes, or reach for some belladonna drops, which lasted longer, but also caused blindness. Pale skin was encouraged with veils, gloves and parasols, but could also be bought: Sears & Roebuck sold a popular product called Dr. Rose’s Arsenic Complexion Wafers, which were just that–little white chalk wafers filled with arsenic for delicate nibbling. They were specifically advertised as “perfectly harmless.”

Arsenic, a natural metalloid found in the earth’s crust, is an extremely toxic compound that can be tolerated for a time when eaten in small amounts (and has occasionally been used in medicine). Long-term exposure, however, is extremely unpleasant: nervous system and kidney damage, hair loss, conjunctivitis and growths called arsenical keratoses plague the body along with, yes, vitiligo, which causes pigment loss in the skin. Arsenic, which became addictive as a person’s tolerance built, was used in as many forms as possible.

Lola Montez, a Victorian actress and traveling beauty writer, wrote in her book The Arts of Beautyabout how women in Bohemia (now a part of the Czech Republic) regularly bathed in arsenic springs, “which gave their skins a transparent whiteness.” She also warned of the price: “once they habituate themselves to the practice, they are obliged to keep it up the rest of their days, or death would speedily follow.”

Continued here…
https://www.atlasobscura.com/articles/the-poisonous-beauty-advice-columns-of-victorian-england
 
My wife never wears make-up. took her a while to realize no reason too. Even a makeup artist in training years ago who got her to assist as his model told her how difficult it was as she did not need any.
 
I just throw on some bronzer in the morning to highlight my cheekbones. ;)

No, not really, I don't know much about makeup.
 
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I only like to wear makeup for special occasions. I don’t like to wear it everyday because I’m to lazy to apply it to my face. I would rather look at makeup on other people. I find it fascinating to see what peoples styles are. Here’s a photo I found in the archives of myself wearing makeup.

I was a sophomore in high school and I had to do dance as physical education. I had to attend dance concerts after school and I would have to wear makeup. I always like to go natural and not cake it on my face. In the photo, my mom did my makeup for the concert.

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You are beautiful.
I like makeup as well. I like to...
Wear it whenever I like to feel a bit extra pretty and I do not like it each day as well.
I like it natural as well, I think it is designed to enhance what you have.
Eye makeup makes my eyes hurt so much sometimes but it is hard, a curled lash and a slick of mascara I love and it makes feel really pretty.
Sometimes I think unique looks are cool too as well as glitter
But I do not like foundation caked on and big fluffy false lashes and for some people like a black line under the waterline not only infects the eye but can look tacky and make ur eyes appear smaller
 
Never liked make up so I only wear on special occasions for which thankfully are few. I mostly attribute it to laziness and the fact that I am no good at applying it.
 
Neither work nor special occasions are incentive enough for my wife to wear makeup. If you do not require it, sort of pointless applying it.
 
I like doing makeup for my ex-partner who is a transwoman.

I used to do it for a male friend as well. He looked great in guyliner.

Myself? Not so much. It feels like dry clay on my face no matter what brand I use. I also touch my face non-stop as a form of stimming, so it ends up rubbing off or smudging within minutes. It's a waste of money.
 
MY wife changed her hair twice in ger life once, curls second time perm, first time went to club no body recognized her. Second time she got perm went to family reunion. Her mother asked me where she was as she stood next to me.
 
I wore eyeliner sometimes as a teenager which fit with the fact that I was a punk/new waver back then. Other than that being a guy, I never wore any other makeup.

As romantic interests, I for the most part avoided women who wore a lot of makeup. Like @Outdated said, women who wear a ton of makeup look like clown face to me and I actually find it unsettling and disturbing; perhaps even ever so slightly, scary in a way. One of my best friends years ago dated a woman who wore more makeup than I've ever seen. There's just no way I could be in a relationship with someone who wore that much makeup. Also, it's gross when even after they remove their makeup at night to sleep, their pillowcase still has a permanent smudge on it from their face. Plus makeup tastes gross when you kiss your woman's face.
 
The purpose of makeup is to accentuate a bit. Natural beauty should not be hidden behind insecurity.
I went to a party on Saturday. Spoke to a woman, very good looking meet many times before thought she had an unusual fashion style with her hair, So being an Aspie asked her why she emulated this style from the 1920's.was she into flappers. To my Suprise she laughed then said what is a flapper, this is my natural hair, so I showed her what flappers were and that my grandmother was into this. She was very flattered. Funniest part my wife told her I was bad at names and my nick name for her was flapper girl.
 
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