For those who have said they wish there was a cure for autism and if there was, they'd seek the cure as fast as possible:
Do you have significant issues related to your autism when you're alone?
I don't recall who said it, but an autistic person said something to the effect of only being "autistic" when they're around other people. They didn't mean they were literally autistic sometimes and literally NT other times. The meaning of the statement was that when they're by themselves, doing their own thing, living as they choose to live, they're perfectly contented or at least they're not ridden with the stress, anxiety or drain they feel when they're navigating in the NT dominated world or interacting with NTs. In short, they feel "normal" when they're not interacting with NT people and conversely they feel "abnormal" only when they're interacting with NTs.
How much of your wanting a cure has to do with the fact that you're in a minority living in a world overwhelmingly designed for the majority rather than you having complete inabilities to function in life in your own ways?
I agree there do seem to be two different categories of autistic people: Those that don't wish to change their neurology and those that do. Those that embrace their autism even with its challenges and those that wish they were NT.