Steelbookcollector217
Well-Known Member
Deep down inside i know i'm not alone in this, but naturally it makes people feel better when they speak to or interact with other people who they can relate to, other people who have gone through the same situation.
It happend to me in the last quarter of 2024, reminds me, the last quarter of 2024 was very rough for me because of 3 negative things that happend to me. Reminds me, some people say that bad things, or negative things happen in Three's, 3's.
On September 7th, my Dog of almost 15 years passed away, i miss him everyday, and then October 13th, i injured my ankle, torn ligament, i could barely go into work and was unproductive for like a full month, couldn't exercise or work out for like a full month.
Then October 26th, was the last time i had any contact with my friend, or i should say former friend, that was the last time i had any communication with him, we spoke on the phone, he expressed interest in getting together, hanging out the next weekend, i follow up with him, call and text him, but no answer, no response, and i haven't heard anything from him since then, i have of course called and texted him numerous times since then, but no answer, no response.
However, i did see these warning signs, behaviors from him, that he was not his normal self from how i knew him, me and him had been friends since 2012.
Back in September, me and him went like 2 to 3 weeks without any contact with each other, when we did establish communication with each other at the time, he told me he was going to these group therapy sessions for his mental/emotional health, and when me and my brother hung out with him back in September, we went to Dave & Busters together, we noticed he was not behaving his normal self, we saw him get into a verbal altercation with the Cashier about requesting a refund, and when me and my brother walked around in the Arcade area, there were times he would just walk away from me and my brother without telling us, like he was lost or his mind was just completely somewhere else.
At this present moment, this is the longest i've gone without any contact/communication with my friend, or former friend i should say.
So my best guess and speculation is that, he has ghosted me because of his mental/emotional struggles, he needs time to reset himself, but me and him never had a fight or argument with each other, we didn't exactly have a fallout with each other, even if he decided to end our friendship or just put our friendship on a hiatus because of his mental/emotional health, it still hurts a lot though.
I did reach out to his cousin on facebook, according to what his cousin told me, he says that its NOT personal regarding me and my brother as to why he cut off communication with me and my brother, and he his cousin himself admitted that he is not doing well mentally/emotionally, but nevertheless, it still hurts though, and obviously i don't know whats going through his mind, i sometimes wonder if there are reasons he started to dislike me or just started to resent me.
Just want to know if anyone else here in this forum has gone through a situation like this.
It happend to me in the last quarter of 2024, reminds me, the last quarter of 2024 was very rough for me because of 3 negative things that happend to me. Reminds me, some people say that bad things, or negative things happen in Three's, 3's.
On September 7th, my Dog of almost 15 years passed away, i miss him everyday, and then October 13th, i injured my ankle, torn ligament, i could barely go into work and was unproductive for like a full month, couldn't exercise or work out for like a full month.
Then October 26th, was the last time i had any contact with my friend, or i should say former friend, that was the last time i had any communication with him, we spoke on the phone, he expressed interest in getting together, hanging out the next weekend, i follow up with him, call and text him, but no answer, no response, and i haven't heard anything from him since then, i have of course called and texted him numerous times since then, but no answer, no response.
However, i did see these warning signs, behaviors from him, that he was not his normal self from how i knew him, me and him had been friends since 2012.
Back in September, me and him went like 2 to 3 weeks without any contact with each other, when we did establish communication with each other at the time, he told me he was going to these group therapy sessions for his mental/emotional health, and when me and my brother hung out with him back in September, we went to Dave & Busters together, we noticed he was not behaving his normal self, we saw him get into a verbal altercation with the Cashier about requesting a refund, and when me and my brother walked around in the Arcade area, there were times he would just walk away from me and my brother without telling us, like he was lost or his mind was just completely somewhere else.
At this present moment, this is the longest i've gone without any contact/communication with my friend, or former friend i should say.
So my best guess and speculation is that, he has ghosted me because of his mental/emotional struggles, he needs time to reset himself, but me and him never had a fight or argument with each other, we didn't exactly have a fallout with each other, even if he decided to end our friendship or just put our friendship on a hiatus because of his mental/emotional health, it still hurts a lot though.
I did reach out to his cousin on facebook, according to what his cousin told me, he says that its NOT personal regarding me and my brother as to why he cut off communication with me and my brother, and he his cousin himself admitted that he is not doing well mentally/emotionally, but nevertheless, it still hurts though, and obviously i don't know whats going through his mind, i sometimes wonder if there are reasons he started to dislike me or just started to resent me.
Just want to know if anyone else here in this forum has gone through a situation like this.
