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Have you ever encountered a know-it-all to the point where it gets annoying?

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When I was in 11th grade, I had a geometry teacher who would constantly go off topic over everything instead of just teaching the subject, which was a huge distraction for me. He would talk garbage about everybody, and we dared to defend ourselves or others, he’d reply with “your face”. He would ask stupid questions on our geometry tests saying “what year did Rick Astley’s one hit wonder come out?”. He was this obsessed 90’s kid who would mock us for not growing up in the glorious decade he lived in, and used his biased opinions as facts. For example he would say “all modern cartoons suck”. Actually, Gravity Falls was an excellent show, nice try. And he would NEVER shut up about Bob Ross. Even if we told him to stop, he’d never listen.

He would claim facts about famous fictional series that are actually false. For example he stated that the Powerpuff Girls were played by children in the 1998 series. I told him that was not true because they were in their 20’s and 30’s when it first aired. He twisted my words and said they ARE adults now but used to not be. This infuriated me because he acted like he’s smart and the rest of us are dumb, but he puts himself on a high pedestal and discredits my generation especially since I was a fan of that show.

His rude behavior got me in trouble almost every time, he’d mock us for not knowing something yet he never acknowledged that he was wrong about anything even if someone pointed out his mistake. If any of us succeeded he would just go “whatever”. I hated going to school because of him, especially since he had a grudge against me because I was the only kid in the school who had autism. He pointed out every mistake I made no matter how hard I worked and would end up with C’s, D’s and even a big fat zero, meanwhile my neurotypical classmates would slack off and he gave them A’s and B’s. I nearly failed my class and would cry every night. Sometimes I wonder why he ever got a job like this, and if the other teachers ever recognized his behavior.

When I finally finished high school I was overjoyed knowing I would never have to deal with him again. So that was my experience. Anyways, what are yours, if any?
 
A teacher would literally reply to their students, "your face?" A teacher? Not a middle-schooler?
 
The only time something like that ever happened was with a German teacher who was really into astronomy. I asked him about his telescope and he spent the rest of the lesson talking about that. Not a know-it-all, just an enthusiast. It was great for me, maybe not for the other students.
 
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What does that even mean? It sounds so random to me.
It's a typical American joke, at the end of a claim or question it can just be said to make it sound funny. But this is what happens among teenagers rather and online. There is also the "in your pants" joke game where you add that at the end of some movie title or something.

"He twisted my words and said they ARE adults now but used to not be." - that seems to be another one of his jokes about young actors etc. Heard it before.

Odd man, the teacher.

I had a teacher who would call women blondes when they had a wrong answer. He was very odd and would grow out his pinky nail and scratch his ear with it. He got up on the table at the end of the years at the party and danced with students lol at which point mom grabbed me and said we are leaving.

I did my best to pay attention to him in class and I wrote everything I understood down as much as I could remember then he read it outloud and shamed me, that was the only time I ever tried again to learn his stupid subject. I would get bad grades but when I passed the finals which were not corrected by him but by judges I got significantly high grades and his students (my classmates) were jelly. I never studied it, just opened the book a few times, read around few hours before my finals, asked mom about history and from all that I wrote some pages and passed. History wasn't worth my time.

Lotsa stupidity in school, some kids should get homeschooled.
 
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It's a typical American joke, at the end of a claim or question it can just be said to make it sound funny. But this is what happens among teenagers rather and online. There is also the "in your pants" joke game where you add that at the end of some movie title or something.

"He twisted my words and said they ARE adults now but used to not be." - that seems to be another one of his jokes about young actors etc. Heard it before.

Odd man, the teacher.

I had a teacher who would call women blondes when they had a wrong answer. He was very odd and would grow out his pinky nail and scratch his ear with it. He got up on the table at the end of the years at the party and danced with students lol at which point mom grabbed me and said we are leaving.

I did my best to pay attention to him in class and I wrote everything I understood down as much as I could remember then he read it outloud and shamed me, that was the only time I ever tried again to learn his stupid subject. I would get bad grades but when I passed the finals which were not corrected by him but by judges I got significantly high grades and his students (my classmates) were jelly. I never studied it, just opened the book a few times, read around few hours before my finals, asked mom about history and from all that I wrote some pages and passed. History wasn't worth my time.

Lotsa stupidity in school, some kids should get homeschooled.

A colossal amount of stupidity in school, yeah.

My own experience wasnt really about any specific teachers, just... how everything worked in general.

I always say that in school, I learned exactly three very specific things: 1, reading/writing, 2, the most basic arithmetic, and 3, how to type. I remember nothing else that was "taught". Nothing. How could I, when it was all presented in the most boring, braindead way possible? For many hours per day? With homework that intruded on free time. OF COURSE, I didnt learn anything.

Yet, around the family and such I'm generally considered to be an irritating wealth of information and knowledge. Particularly when it comes to computers (software, not hardware). But none of what I know was learned from school. It was learned DESPITE school. Outside of class time. Exactly how I went about doing any of that, I dont remember. Particularly the computer stuff. DOS (and later Windows) and some programming in Basic, I've no idea what I used to learn that. Can't remember even a single part of that process. But the main takeaway is that it wasnt school doing that. Applies to college too, which really wasnt any better.

All of that also gave me an absolute loathing for certain subjects, too. Math and history, in particular. Cant stand either, even all these years later.

What an "effective" education system it was for me.
 
It's a typical American joke, at the end of a claim or question it can just be said to make it sound funny. But this is what happens among teenagers rather and online. There is also the "in your pants" joke game where you add that at the end of some movie title or something.

"He twisted my words and said they ARE adults now but used to not be." - that seems to be another one of his jokes about young actors etc. Heard it before.

Odd man, the teacher.

I had a teacher who would call women blondes when they had a wrong answer. He was very odd and would grow out his pinky nail and scratch his ear with it. He got up on the table at the end of the years at the party and danced with students lol at which point mom grabbed me and said we are leaving.

I did my best to pay attention to him in class and I wrote everything I understood down as much as I could remember then he read it outloud and shamed me, that was the only time I ever tried again to learn his stupid subject. I would get bad grades but when I passed the finals which were not corrected by him but by judges I got significantly high grades and his students (my classmates) were jelly. I never studied it, just opened the book a few times, read around few hours before my finals, asked mom about history and from all that I wrote some pages and passed. History wasn't worth my time.

Lotsa stupidity in school, some kids should get homeschooled.
I agree. Workplaces should honestly pay more attention to clients to see if their personalities are fit for the job, because let’s be honest, nobody wants an antisocial person with a hypocritical mindset as a teacher, or advisor for that matter.
 
I agree. Workplaces should honestly pay more attention to clients to see if their personalities are fit for the job, because let’s be honest, nobody wants an antisocial person with a hypocritical mindset as a teacher, or advisor for that matter.
This is a copy/paste of my post in another thread:

Just because they're a teacher doesn't mean they're terribly bright, or of good character.

Back in the 70s I had a Social Studies teacher that was a barely functioning alcoholic, a classic chardonnay socialist and a feminist. She told a class full of 14 year olds that women didn't even know that having sex was what got them pregnant until the 1940s.

Screening of who was allowed to teach kids was pretty slack back then I admit, but I don't think it's really improved all that much over the years.
 
This is a copy/paste of my post in another thread:

Just because they're a teacher doesn't mean they're terribly bright, or of good character.

Back in the 70s I had a Social Studies teacher that was a barely functioning alcoholic, a classic chardonnay socialist and a feminist. She told a class full of 14 year olds that women didn't even know that having sex was what got them pregnant until the 1940s.

Screening of who was allowed to teach kids was pretty slack back then I admit, but I don't think it's really improved all that much over the years.
When I said the same to my psychologist she said it's unusual that I didn't know what sex was or stuff like that in my young teenage years. Perhaps it is autistic, and a neglect of the bad and religious parenting I have received.
 
When I said the same to my psychologist she said it's unusual that I didn't know what sex was or stuff like that in my young teenage years. Perhaps it is autistic, and a neglect of the bad and religious parenting I have received.
My religious parents don’t talk about sex either because they think it’s sinful. I don’t blame you one bit.
 
Yeah, I definitely agree with you there. Especially when they expect you to back it all up to support your case.
Well, ever since graduate school and research, I have been used to back up all my assertions. In seminars, when presenting a topic or current research the knives are out and participants will home on any perceived weakness, so one must learn to defend one's position. The know it all seems to use arguments from authority or other rhetorical fallacies.
 
I think I was the know-it-all in school. I was very uptight about everything being right and perfect and had no problems with correcting the teachers when they were wrong. I had no concept of tact, social order, or respect for authority. I offended a few teachers.

I kept correcting the geometry teacher because his proofs were long and awkward and I could prove the same thing in fewer steps. He finally told me to shut up so I shut up for the rest of the semester.

Our history teacher gave us 100 questions that would be on the final exam. I pointed out that the exam had a question that wasn't on the list he gave us. He said, "Yes it is." I said, "No it's not. I memorized them all." He rechecked and then announced to the class that everyone got question 17 right because of me. I didn't like him, but at least he was fair.

In physics, if the teacher marked a question wrong I would argue with him until I proved him wrong or he proved me wrong.

I still bristle when someone gets something wrong (my reaction is like the dogs in Up yelling "Squirrel!", except with me perking up and thinking, "Wrong!" :p). But I try to let it go if it's not important or find a gentle and kind way to correct someone if it's necessary.
 
I think I was the know-it-all in school. I was very uptight about everything being right and perfect and had no problems with correcting the teachers when they were wrong. I had no concept of tact, social order, or respect for authority. I offended a few teachers.

I kept correcting the geometry teacher because his proofs were long and awkward and I could prove the same thing in fewer steps. He finally told me to shut up so I shut up for the rest of the semester.

Our history teacher gave us 100 questions that would be on the final exam. I pointed out that the exam had a question that wasn't on the list he gave us. He said, "Yes it is." I said, "No it's not. I memorized them all." He rechecked and then announced to the class that everyone got question 17 right because of me. I didn't like him, but at least he was fair.

In physics, if the teacher marked a question wrong I would argue with him until I proved him wrong or he proved me wrong.

I still bristle when someone gets something wrong (my reaction is like the dogs in Up yelling "Squirrel!", except with me perking up and thinking, "Wrong!" :p). But I try to let it go if it's not important or find a gentle and kind way to correct someone if it's necessary.
Nowadays I'm afraid of being blunt, because if I correct someone sometimes it might sound like I'm loud or mean, without me intending to. And then a long silence ensues.

So I listen to them and die a little every time they say something wrong, and think I'm never gonna find someone to really talk facts with. It's so uncomfortable it hurts.
 
Nowadays I'm afraid of being blunt, because if I correct someone sometimes it might sound like I'm loud or mean, without me intending to. And then a long silence ensues.

So I listen to them and die a little every time they say something wrong, and think I'm never gonna find someone to really talk facts with. It's so uncomfortable it hurts.
Yep. Also, info dumping or monologuing now can be interpreted as mansplaining. One more reason for me to keep my mouth shut.
 
I think I was the know-it-all in school. I was very uptight about everything being right and perfect and had no problems with correcting the teachers when they were wrong. I had no concept of tact, social order, or respect for authority. I offended a few teachers.

I kept correcting the geometry teacher because his proofs were long and awkward and I could prove the same thing in fewer steps. He finally told me to shut up so I shut up for the rest of the semester.

Our history teacher gave us 100 questions that would be on the final exam. I pointed out that the exam had a question that wasn't on the list he gave us. He said, "Yes it is." I said, "No it's not. I memorized them all." He rechecked and then announced to the class that everyone got question 17 right because of me. I didn't like him, but at least he was fair.

In physics, if the teacher marked a question wrong I would argue with him until I proved him wrong or he proved me wrong.

I still bristle when someone gets something wrong (my reaction is like the dogs in Up yelling "Squirrel!", except with me perking up and thinking, "Wrong!" :p). But I try to let it go if it's not important or find a gentle and kind way to correct someone if it's necessary.
I have been wrong so many times I lost count, usually because I am pushing the edges of procedure and processes. One thing I wish I had been wrong about was when I was auditing a submission for a pre-approval inspection by the European Medicins Agency. I was reviewing their process validation and there were a large number of defects in their work that were not answered by design or procedure. Some of them violating good practices for aseptic manufacturing. I listed them all and indicated what the findings of the agency would be. I was embarrased for them because they did not postpone and correct their deficiencies and every item that I noted was a regulatory finding and the product was not approved subject to resubmission (a minimum of an 18 month delay).
 
When I was in 11th grade, I had a geometry teacher who would constantly go off topic over everything instead of just teaching the subject, which was a huge distraction for me. He would talk garbage about everybody, and we dared to defend ourselves or others, he’d reply with “your face”. He would ask stupid questions on our geometry tests saying “what year did Rick Astley’s one hit wonder come out?”. He was this obsessed 90’s kid who would mock us for not growing up in the glorious decade he lived in, and used his biased opinions as facts. For example he would say “all modern cartoons suck”. Actually, Gravity Falls was an excellent show, nice try. And he would NEVER shut up about Bob Ross. Even if we told him to stop, he’d never listen.

He would claim facts about famous fictional series that are actually false. For example he stated that the Powerpuff Girls were played by children in the 1998 series. I told him that was not true because they were in their 20’s and 30’s when it first aired. He twisted my words and said they ARE adults now but used to not be. This infuriated me because he acted like he’s smart and the rest of us are dumb, but he puts himself on a high pedestal and discredits my generation especially since I was a fan of that show.

His rude behavior got me in trouble almost every time, he’d mock us for not knowing something yet he never acknowledged that he was wrong about anything even if someone pointed out his mistake. If any of us succeeded he would just go “whatever”. I hated going to school because of him, especially since he had a grudge against me because I was the only kid in the school who had autism. He pointed out every mistake I made no matter how hard I worked and would end up with C’s, D’s and even a big fat zero, meanwhile my neurotypical classmates would slack off and he gave them A’s and B’s. I nearly failed my class and would cry every night. Sometimes I wonder why he ever got a job like this, and if the other teachers ever recognized his behavior.

When I finally finished high school I was overjoyed knowing I would never have to deal with him again. So that was my experience. Anyways, what are yours, if any?
I was at a geophysics conference once where a French geophysicist made a presentation, essentially the geophysical answer to the question of life, the universe, and everything. Without getting into details, his theory solved all problems. During the question period, one of my co-workers said "It seems to me you are saying if we do X we will get results Y." He replied "Yes. Yes. You understand me. It is so good to get support." My co-worker then said "The problem is, if we do X we get results Z." He started screaming "I know your company. I have asked you many times for reasonable data to support my theory, but all you give me is wrong data!" He literally started foaming at the mouth, screaming incoherently (or in French, same difference to me). He was pretty much never heard from again. His basic philosophy was that any observed reality that he did not agree with was wrong.
 
Nowadays I'm afraid of being blunt, because if I correct someone sometimes it might sound like I'm loud or mean, without me intending to. And then a long silence ensues.

So I listen to them and die a little every time they say something wrong, and think I'm never gonna find someone to really talk facts with. It's so uncomfortable it hurts.
I was the one who was often lectured at for making a mistake. Try being someone who literally dies inside for making a simple mistake and then fearing being corrected. I was one who tried to be a perfectionist without being seen as incompetent or lazy. Yep, I was one to walk on eggshells.

I honestly don’t really care anymore if people got uncomfortable of the mistakes I made, I learned to accept that making mistakes are human and I shouldn’t be ashamed of making mistakes no matter how many times they kept screaming in my face on how wrong I am.

The people who did that to me were nt’s and they admitted they were and I was the person who easily had a meltdown because I was also an HSP.

I don’t want people talking garbage about us HSP’s saying that we’re too butthurt and hate being heard the cold hard facts, because in reality, we don’t hear the facts but instead hear the harshness and shaming in their voices whether it was intended or not.
 
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